The AFF #  

jsc88310 53M
7 posts
3/27/2005 8:50 pm

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The AFF #

Hi everyone. I keep hearing complaints from people about the people on this site "not being real" or "I thought this was a fuck site". Here are the numbers for the entire state of New Mexico on AdultFriendFinder.
New Mexico has a little over 70, 000 listings IN THE ENTIRE STATE. Of those almost 56, 000 are MEN seeking something or other (almost 80% ). Almost 7, 000 are WOMEN seeking something or other (almost 10% ). Almost 7, 500 COUPLES seeking something or other--mostly bi-females--(a little over 10% ). Groups, 2M, 2F, and TV/TS/TG make up the SLIGHT
difference (298 listings)....
Do the math guys!!!! If all you want is to get laid, it probably won't happen on this site, or at least not soon enough for you. Not with a 56 to 7 ratio of men to women & most couples looking for ladies.... If you don't have a
picture on your profile, it is even less likely. If all you show is your cock, same thing. If you have a stupid profile, same thing. If you couldn't hook up with someone without being on a website, same thing.
I have personally met with people on this site, and have been invited to parties with people on this site. But then, I have a pic posted, I'm not just a pushy horn-dog looking to get laid tonight, I pay the money for the basic membership for contact, and I participate in the chatrooms and events that occur.
If you take exception to this post, or would otherwise like to comment on it, please feel free. I am opening my group, Alamogordo Can Be Fun, (this is a posting there) up to the entire state at this time.....
Have a good weekend, practice safe sex, and enjoy life to it's fullest all you Polyamory Hedonistic folks out
there. Jeff

LustGoddess2469 51F  
2453 posts
3/27/2005 10:17 pm

And another reason why you might not be getting any is if you send out emails like this:

"im very horny and i would do any thing to get laid email me @AdultFriendFinder ps: i have a very big tongue and will use until you tell me to stop. i will do anything you want me to do"

This is an email I received today from a man on the site that I've never spoken with before. A perfect example of what not to write in an introductory email.


nightstogether 58M

3/28/2005 12:07 am

You're preaching to the converted (well, in my case, at least!).

private-intellectual (.de)

rm_brickley2 68M/62F
3 posts
3/28/2005 12:26 am

Hi Jeff !
I read your blog which got a few laughs out of me;
Thanks for the laughs, I needed it !
Now, Jeff, why are you drawing such a " DOOM AND
GLOOM " picture of this AdultFriendFinder site ?
Those poor " I want to get laid tonight " folks
will get their balloon totally deflated if they
read this and listen to you !
I am the female half of a nice Canadian couple
living in Vancouver, Canada.And I am no Spring chick !
We have been on AdultFriendFinder since this last September only, and we have already had a few very pleasurable,satisfying ,mind-boggling and very fulfilling sexual encounters...
You can check our profile if you want...
So,I think if we encourage people on AdultFriendFinder to be
sincere, straightforward,not to play head games or
drama,and remind them that you have no time to waste with phonies or flakies,they will come clean
and only the REAL PLAYERS will pursue emailing and
contacting you !!!
You may choose to disagree but that's ok.You are entitled to your opinion !

Good luck with your new group !
By thr way, what does Alamogordo mean,beside
" Fat Alamo "?


EMSqueen 42F

3/28/2005 1:07 am

LOL...your title made me say "I have GOT to see what this is about." Good point. There are SO many pushy people on this really is quite a turn off.

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