The use of winks - A Man's view  

jrb6955 60M
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3/8/2006 9:59 am
The use of winks - A Man's view

Recently, I came across some posts about the use of winks (one was a Poll). So I thought I would take a moment to explain how I use the wink feature. I have no particular reason for doing this, the mood just struck me to do it. So here it is:

Lately, I have been spending most of my time on site in the Advice Lines (they can be a bit addicting) and not searching profiles. However, I will view the profiles of the women who appear in the "Recent member photo gallery" and "Who's on line" sections of my home page. If the woman is in may area and I like her profile, I will send her a wink to let her know I am interested. If I later see that she has viewed my profile, I will then shoot her an e-mail (although it sometimes takes a few days, as I noted, the Advice Lines can be a bit addicting). This does work in some instances, but not in all instances as I am certain there are many women who view profiles privately (just as I do). I also know from reading the Advice Lines that many women do not pay attention to the winks. So my perspective on using the winks may change.

I have also used the winks in one other category of situations. When I view a profile which seems too good to be true (particularly if it is of a much younger woman), I have sent a wink on impulse just to see what happens. I suspect these women may be the infamous FemBots and am curious to see whether I get any response.

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