ClompApronUreal 37F
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6/8/2006 4:02 pm

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6/9/2006 3:44 pm


I am **so** not believing any guys that say they're not in things just for a one night stand. LoL. The whole, we can be friends but I'm not really going to talk to you like, at all. Ever. ... that doesn't really equal friendship.

I'm looking for FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. As in - someone that likes going to dinner, movies, etc - and THEN having sex. Someone that I know isn't just going to call me up for a one night fling and then forget I exist.


I have only myself to blame, of course.

So far I've had three encounters from this site.


One, I'd happily do over and over again. We might not end up being great friends, but to hell with it - he's really fucking awesome in bed. A real pleaser and that's just *perfect*. If you're reading this, you know who you are.

The second... well... Hmm... Over too quick. And, surprise, surprise... haven't heard from him since. I'm all for giving a guy the benefit of the doubt... but, wow...

The third... a bit rough. I had bruises from it. Would I do it again? Dunno. In light of the faint hickeys on my neck, I might have to ask for less roughness next time. Will wait to see if I even hear from him again, though. I'm not holding my breath. *another eye roll*

I am... not doing that well about my birthday. My actual birthday 'fun' is set for the 17th since the 12 is a Monday. Not sure that leaving myself all alone on Monday is the best thing to do, though. I'll have to see when it gets closer.

My friend, who I shall refer to only as "A", is a part of the Assassination City girls roller derby league. Her team plays this Sunday and we're all going as a group to watch her kick some serious ass.

No plans other than that this weekend, though.

rm_dreamer96_1 40M

6/8/2006 5:22 pm

You can believe me! If I wanted a one night stand I'd find a hooker. I have met several women from this site and only one of them did I see more than once. I would like to have seen them all again, (except for the one who lied.) I either did not hear back from them or I got the "I'm busy" brush off. I must be bad in bed and they didn't want to see if I could be better I guess. No benefit of the doubt for me. Of course there is always someone better just around the corner right? (Actually I suspect that a couple of them had boyfriends they were not telling me about.)

With the man/woman ratio being so bad for the men here, I am surprised to read about women who say they don't hear from guys again. WTF? Jmcconnell1980, any man who would not want to see you again is an idiot.

Dinner, dancing, hot sex all night, breakfast in bed. Lets' get together again next weekend and see if we can make it even better is what I say. Why quit after one meeting?


6/9/2006 6:28 am

Good words. You know what you want and you won't settle for anything less. GOOD ON YOU!

Love, Light, Laughter, Leave a Legacy,


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