Women Confuse me!  

jmc858 57M
4 posts
7/15/2006 5:04 pm

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Women Confuse me!

Women confuse me. I want to know how they feel about relationships and sex.
I'm a normal heterosexual guy that enjoys sex just about every day. Are there women out there that like this too? My current relationship has no sex life left. What do you say to your partner, without offending them, that we need to get physical in the bedroom?


7/15/2006 6:43 pm

Yes, there are women who want sex everyday too. I had the same problem, except it was my ex-husband who never wanted to have sex. He'd get upset if I'd try to initiate sex during one of his TV shows. Since he watched TV nonstop, it was kind of hard to get around them. No wonder I divorced him...lol

First, have you asked your partner why? I would think that would be the most important question to ask. Second, ask if there is anything you can do to help her to overcome the issue. Maybe, she needs some intimacy, without sex, to get her in the mood.

I have known plenty of married women who have lost their libido and many said it was because they were tired. They would come home to handle the kids, make dinner, help with homework, cleanup, etc....while the hubby just sat there watching TV. Afterwards, the hubbies could possibly understand why their wives weren't in the mood. Could something like this be happening?

rm_melanie519 63F
80 posts
7/30/2006 12:11 pm

I can only speak for myself, but i find that after 40 sex is all good and i look forward to being with someone for the special feeling of being wanted and just being able to relax and enjoy, i am a woman that wants and needs sex everyday and if your relationship is missing that then find out why. COMMUNICATION is the only way to make a relationship work, yes it sometimes makes one feel bad but the only way to improve a situation is to be open and honest. Honesty is the foundation to change.

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