So a few questions have come up...  

jm_anon101 41M
5 posts
5/11/2006 3:33 pm

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5/12/2006 5:54 pm

So a few questions have come up...

...on my being married. Let me clarify a little. I am very attentive to my wifes needs, including sexual when the mood hits her. Now that is the key. For the mood to hit, all has to be perfect -- the perfect day with no distractions, no worries, no stress, nothing hanging out there. If you live in the same world I do, those things aren't going to align too often.

I consider myself a good husband (with the possible exception of spending some time in here!). I generally work 10 hour days at the office (go in early so as not to impact family time) with a 2 hour commute (total) added to that. When I get home I take over with the kids, cook, clean, etc. We spend time visiting, planning. So I am there for her - whatever her needs are.

BTW, all those that dig a little cause I am married... um, what site are we at? Sheesh.

honeycomb1974 45M/44F
282 posts
5/11/2006 4:10 pm

We don't mind that you are married, it seems like you are a very good husband. The thing is does your wife know and approve of you being on here. If she does, hey more power to you. If not, then how are we to believe you will be honest with us if you are not honest with her.
Honey and Runt

jm_anon101 41M
9 posts
5/11/2006 6:01 pm

i'll accept that... and be brutally honest. for her, this would be on the level of adultry. i was caught looking at porn once and that almost led her to walking. so no, she doesn't know. and i am keeping that from her. i figure that i can try to find an outlet or let tension and anger mount internally. i choose option 2.

you asked, i told. now it is up to you (that is the corporate you) on how to react. i figure i am being more honest than many others here, but could be wrong...

thanks for the insight. i appreciate it.

mycin62 55F

5/11/2006 8:19 pm

Welcome to blogland. Who cares if you're married, so are half of us

jm_anon101 41M
9 posts
5/12/2006 4:48 am

thank you mycin. with a site dedicated to the discreet, makes sense to me...

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