Your cheating heart  

jfeather79 39F
14 posts
3/22/2006 11:21 pm

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4/7/2006 6:38 pm

Your cheating heart

Where does infidelity begin
Iniating contact
Contact becomes flirtatious
Talk/IMs/emails become sexual
Cyber sex with text
Cyber sex with cam
Meeting the person
Nonintercourse sexual contact
Repeated encounters

8337 posts
3/22/2006 11:56 pm

None of the above.

It begins in the mind, once the person determines that betrayal is worth the pain it would create to the other individual.

Alot of people "look", that doesn't meant hey will cheat.


"My every move is a calculated step, to bring me closer to embrace an early death." -Tupac Shakur

rm_parttime1945 73M

3/23/2006 12:44 am

Well,,,I guess I'm a sinner then cause if you show me your pussy,I'll service it,just as long as your over 20 years old...

MONA_14 31F

3/23/2006 1:56 pm

you are invited to be our Friends

17 posts
3/24/2006 8:13 pm

I agree with DIV.

lexingtoncock 53M/51F

3/27/2006 12:03 pm

if you initiate contact, that means you're looking to start something up with that person. why else would you initiate things???

lexingtoncock 53M/51F

3/28/2006 4:24 pm

so I guess my husband cheated on me then he initiated contact for me to fuck someone else, but if you got the blessing of your spouse it isn't cheating right?

sexyymind 48M
15 posts
3/28/2006 4:31 pm

Agreed with DIV, it's mental thing. Now the question is who doesn't cheat?

rm_WedInVA 49M/43F
16 posts
3/28/2006 6:36 pm

HOLY ~^~ IS THIS A CAN OF WORMS! I told a classmate (college survey) that I could watch my wife fuck another man, and it would be ok, but if she went on a romantic date behind my back it would be cheating. The difference is intent.

If we are having sex together (even if one is just watching it's still together) then the intent is purely sexual pleasure, and we're good.

If, on the other hand, one of us has an emotional relationship with another person, replacing the spouse, it is cheating.

does that make sense?

rm_Niac00 38M
1 post
4/6/2006 5:01 pm

The whole summary would be, If you have to Lie to your partner or they would be hurt. It is cheating.

JCmale51 66M

4/28/2006 8:28 am

Where does infidelity begin?
The right answer wasn't listed. Infidelity begins at home and in the mind. It's begins when you think you need something else besides what you have. Then you start looking which leads to everything else.

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