jellogirlhere 50F
29 posts
2/27/2006 5:04 pm

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1/24/2007 6:18 am


Self-confidence is the food that feeds our personal growth. It is an absolutely indispensable part of achievement. Self-confidence stems from the self-awareness of our intrinsic worth as individuals. We are blessed with an incredible amount of potential, most of which is untapped. George Santayana once wrote, "Man is as full of potentiality as he is
of importance." Santayana's thought also implies that the choice is ours, which it is.

Self-confidence works best when based on your own knowledge and self-respect, rather than on comparisons of yourself with others. A wise friend once said, "Don't compare yourself to other people because you will feel either pompous or bitter . . . and neither one is desirable." So our self-confidence has to exist in a vacuum, which it can. It feeds on the knowledge gained from discovering one's inner potential.

I have observered alot of self-confidence issues on AdultFriendFinder...
What do you think??

moonlightphoenix 46F
6508 posts
2/27/2006 7:02 pm

I think intrinsic is the word of the day.

timberwolf6972 45M

2/27/2006 8:09 pm

I have seen some yes. I happen to be a very confident man and I find confidence in a woman to be a sexy quality to have. {=}

rm_Mime_Guy 52M

5/1/2006 6:55 pm

Your post is both interesting and thought provoking. I wish I had written something as worthwhile as that, but I am not as good as you. You have a knack for writing. I wish I did. Gosh, I wish I had some qualities! I was going to take a self-confidence improvement class, but I don't know what good it would do me!

Seriously, nice! And the jello is well-placed!

rm_jstme1961 57M

5/27/2006 10:01 pm

While I'm a BIG fan of the jello placement, I've got to say that your thought provoking statment is an even bigger turn on because in addition to the level of confidence you show in yourself, your obviously a very, very intelligent and well spoken woman.


SugarDaddy69694 56M

1/6/2007 10:20 pm

Wow! Very deep thoughts! I am very intrigued by you know more than ever. Self Confidence may be the question, or is it being happy with yourself and not trying to please others? The rules of life and society are very complicated and we all struggle with finding our place. Some figure it out sooner than others, and will die happy and have no regrets? or wait is that possible?

jellogirlhere 50F
4 posts
1/24/2007 6:18 am

Being happy with ones self...confidence will follow...they go hand in hand. As for the regets...We all have them...It is up to you how you let it affect you. Choose your thrills wisely....

thanks for the feedback

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