I Have the KIDS  

rm_jd29992z 55M
1308 posts
7/13/2006 7:57 am

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I Have the KIDS

Working with Child Servises I have the kids now. I don't know how long I will have the but I am trying. The kids are opening up more and I am learning more from them. Thanks all of you I am doing what ever I can I jut don't know how the courts will handle this they may force me to give them back.

So if every one out there just buys one little bag of meth and sends it to her maybe she will just forget about them.

Well wish me luck sooner or later I will continue the sexy stories just now the kids come first. I am glad one perent thinks like that.

Later JD

rm_AnOddGirl 58F
3469 posts
7/13/2006 11:11 am

JD, keep up the fight! Remind the courts that Kids Learn By Example!!!!!


rm_jd29992z replies on 7/13/2006 9:45 pm:
Thanks I will fight I am an old Marine we know how to fight. I talked to her last night about 6 (it is almost mid night the next night)she said she would call back to talk to the kids sp far no call. I love my kids and I will give up all my play time for them if I have to. They need a rock to hold on to and I am a dad and I am proud of it. Thanks for your support and I will soon be writing my silly sexy stories. Later JD.

champagnechaser 42F
1639 posts
7/13/2006 6:12 pm

That's awesome, I'm glad to hear they are safe with you.

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/13/2006 9:58 pm:
Thanks CC they are safe for the moment. I did tell her I have them and she said she would call back to talk to them 30 hours later no call Hmmmmmmmm kind of tells you something. Oh I do have someone ready for the begining of next month to watch them hehehe can't wait later girl JD.

mycin62 55F

7/13/2006 10:11 pm

GREAT NEWS!!! Keep up the good fight, fight her all the way until you get them permanantly. You're right, children to live what they learn, now you'll be teaching them much better things to learn. Good luck, take your time with the stories, the kids come first.

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/14/2006 6:33 am:
Thanks Cin they are very happy here that is what worries me what was going on up there. I call the X the night I got home she said that she would call back to talk to the kids hmmm almost 2 days later no call would you be calling your kids 2 to 3 times a day. It is really kind of sad for her I guess that meth is some bad stuff to let you forget your kids like that. But the kids are in loving arms now later girl JD.

Try to IM me later see you

TabithaElectra 39F

7/14/2006 3:38 am

Just wanted to stop by and let you know that I'm thinking about you...good luck

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/14/2006 6:37 am:
Thanks Tabs I need all the support I can get. The good new is that the kids are safe, healthy and loved. I told the X I had them she said she would call back and talk to them I am still waiting she is sad that meth stuff must be bad for a mother to forget her kids like that. Thanks for the support I owe all of you a big hug later JD


7/15/2006 11:57 pm

sending all the support you need hun.. and yes.. the kids come first.. your a good man..

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/16/2006 9:39 am:
Thanks I really need everyones support and thank you for saying I am a good man I look at it as doing the right thing i will sacrifice all I need and more if I have to and keep up the fight. All she has to do is have a lawyer fill out the right paper work and I will have to give them back. But I think she is tapped out I am having a meeting with one of her sisters that lives here tonight and we will work on a plan oh she is on my side by the way. Later JD

LustyTaurus 49M
21253 posts
7/19/2006 12:00 am

Congratulations...sounds like a great step forward. One day at a time...

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/21/2006 6:37 am:
Yes it is one day at a time my friend. I have the kids now for 10 days or so and she only talked to her once. My eyes up there tell me that she is still with that bad group of people I think that the drug has taken over her ife vey sad for her and the kids. They are well and happy now we will see. Thank and later JD

waerlookin4fun 51M/47F

7/19/2006 12:03 am

Hey hun I'm sorry I haven't been around much, I've been working a lot. I am so happy you have the kids and I'll pray you get to keep them. I'm pretty sure you will as I have been down this road with my sister who was on meth. I don't want to put it all out here, but if you would email me I can tell you what happened and what we did to get her kids to a safe place........it may help you.

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/21/2006 6:38 am:
I am going to your profile and send you a letter thanks for the help JD

rm_cru1972 46M
4407 posts
7/19/2006 4:40 pm

Jd. I found out from Muffy you and I are going through kinda similar situations. I jusst read your last few posts, and I must say I am very impressed with the things you are doing. A little bit of info on something else you might try. I have started taping all of my conversations with my ex. The chief of police in my town has said he is pretty sure it is legal. See I have been dealing with "You will NEVER know your son" and other crap like that. Anyway that is another option you maight have. The only thing the Chief said is "You need to have both ends of the conversation on tape" I have found a microcassette recorder that does that. If you care to try that, it is a GE model3-5377A. I found it at Walmart. It has an optional mic that you plug in to the recorder. I use that mic between my ear and the phones earpiece. Just make sure you have the mic level on HI. Hope this helps you at all with your chore at hand


rm_jd29992z replies on 7/21/2006 7:04 am:
Thanks for the encouragement. The law is if one of the people know that the conversation is being recorded or even listened to it is legal in a phone conversation that one person would be you, you just can't bug her phone and record her talking to someone else with out one of the two people knowing they are being recorded. I was thinking about getting a parabolic microphone to listen to them while I had them under surveillance but I was told unless someone in the house knew I was listening it was illegal. I checked it out with a lawyer. Right now she is into the drugs so bad she only called to talk to the kids once in the 10 days I have had them. What good mother to you know that not only would be calling 2 to 3 times a day but would have been on the road to get them back the moment she knew I had them? But I have been thinking about some type of recording devise to have but I only have a cell phone I need to research it. ThanksLater JD

rm_goddess1946 107F
13518 posts
7/23/2006 9:13 pm

Catching my breath on this one...
knowing that your shoulders must need a rubdown...
sad that this has to be this way and glorious that
the kids are now with you...they are safe with you,
I feel certain of that...

Keeping all of you in my prayers...
love from your Goddess1946

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/25/2006 7:22 am:
Oh Goddess I would love a shoulder rub!!!! But they aren't heavy they are my little kids. I have had them for over 2 weeks and only one call from mom very sad. They are doing great considering the circumstances. Thanks for caring that makes me feel good. Sooner or later I will start to write again I need to get my mind off this nightmare. But just being with the kids as much as I can right now. Later girl JD


7/27/2006 6:37 am

Standing with ya in thoughts and prayers! {=}

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/27/2006 9:47 pm:
Thank you J I am living one day at a time she is still on the shit the kids are safe and they are loved too bad you can
t make the ATL thing later JD

funintheday2006 57M
9659 posts
7/27/2006 11:17 pm

Saw your post on Amber and popped across to read.
My thoughts are with you. The only important thing in life is kids.
Stay strong, you are indeed a man.

rm_jd29992z replies on 7/28/2006 7:24 am:
Thanks dude!!!! They are very important to me more so them life itself! Thanks I am a real dad later JD

rm_evil_pussy 38F
49 posts
8/2/2006 8:54 am

hang in there hun and remember what i told you in my blog "kids make the all the difference in the world" you will find you are a much better person because of them...things will be hard for you and there will more than likely be trouble for you but just take a look at the faces of your kids and you will see its all worthwhile...love and hugs JD hun

only EVIL when provoked

rm_jd29992z replies on 8/3/2006 6:54 am:
Thanks Evil P I just sent a reply to your profile I hope that is cool love and hugs back babe later JD

MaggiesWishes 61F

8/3/2006 6:24 pm

Sending you the best of wishes and warm huggies for you and the children. It's a tough journey for the moment, but it's well worth the purchase of the ticket.
We all understand the children come first.

rm_jd29992z replies on 8/3/2006 9:26 pm:
Thank you Maggie and you are right the kids come first. And ye when they sit on my lap hug me and look into my eyes and say, "Daddy I love you." that is well worth the purchase of the ticket!!!! Check out your e-mail I will send you a few pics of them and you can see th loves of my life Thank you for the support all the bloggers have been great. I hope you are doing great on your book. Later girl JD

lustcurious42 57F

8/20/2006 12:12 am

You have a long road in front of you, keep up the good fight. And remember, you will need the ears of friends at many times and remember to ask those near you for help. I'm glad to know they are with you now.

rm_jd29992z replies on 8/20/2006 7:24 am:
Yes I know I have a long hard road. There are a few things in my favor the X is 1200 miles away, still living with the drug dealer, 99% sure she is still using, she has no money, her car is broke down. For the short term that is good. I still have four and a half month until I can call Florida their residence then fight for custody in FL. And yes I will need plenty of friend plenty of ears and I know lots of help. Thank you you are so kind. I am glad they are with me also the thought of them living in that hell makes me shiver. Later girl JD

PS if you want go to my profile and give me your IM and we can talk.

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