Feelings suck  

jawannaplay 45F
19 posts
1/12/2006 9:49 am

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Feelings suck

I must first start by saying that I am frustrated with myself. I swear that I have a hard time keeping my feelings to myself. I am what you would call a "sensitive" person and the littlest things either piss me off or upset me. I need to learn not to be this way. I have a friend that I really care for and I want to be there for them for anything, but it is hard for me, knowing my feelings for them, to hear what they say about other people and meeting with other people. I just don't know if they understand how much I care about them. I know that it is not my place to be like this because nothing but a friendship will ever come about with us, but it still upsets me. I wish I could just start being "cold-hearted" and "non-caring" so that I wouldn't have to be this way about this situation. I don't at all want to end the relationship that we have, but can anyone help me figure out how not to let this get to me??? PLEASE!?!?!?

str8blondeguy 52M
5 posts
1/22/2006 2:17 am

I live in the fort.... I am married, but she will not play...
I am very pleasant to be around and alot of fun.... I would love to talk with the two of you and see if you would like an occasional third in you ranks ! ! Discretion is a must, from all parties.....
same name at that place where the mail is oh so "hot" if you get the meaning

JD_8849 42M
2 posts
2/19/2006 7:23 pm

I've been there b4, if you value your friendship then you have to leave it at that, a friendship anything more will most likely damage what you do have. Having there friendship is better than nothing at all. Don't be so hard on yourself life is too short. I'm new to the Finder and could use a friend. e-mail me sometime maybe we can get to know each other.

3 posts
4/6/2006 2:12 pm

True friends will be there threw thick or thin regardless what your opinion is of them or someone else you didn't gain there friendship by being cold hearted so why would you change yourself your not the one with the problem you just keep being you and keep being the friend that you are talk to them tho and express how you feel and if they are truly your friends they'll respect your opinion and love you the same if not then you'll really know how they feel about you good luck sweetheart.............Nitty

rm_mikey6371 46M
10 posts
4/16/2006 3:31 pm

I hope things worked out for you hon

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