How far does your trust go?
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Posted:Jul 16, 2012 9:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 11, 2018 8:40 pm
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Would it go far enough to allow me to blindfold you first and lay you back so that I can explore you following my own desires and at my own pace. You can touch, so far, but I may push your arms away at some point. Does your trust extend far enough to let me tie your hands and coax you to your stomach, will you flinch if I am a little aggressive? If I want to kiss your neck and back as my erect nipples graze your bare skin...Can you remain face down while I navigate every part of you, kissing and biting your inner thighs with my hands bracing your calves and sitting backwards on your back wearing only my (slightly damp) panties? Will the sound of vibration terrify you? Or do my toys just excite you. Could you remain calm as I adjust your restraints, perhaps bind you to a bed or a chair, stripping all of your physical control from you. I might speak to you only in whispers, I might do as you ask me to, I might do just the opposite. I assure you I will take my time. I will know every inch of you and will have introduced your tongue and mouth to me as well. I may lay beside you or even on top of you as I put my toy collection to use. As you listen to my breathing become ragged and my vocalizations primal will you be able to resist your need to control as your needs go unmet? Will you talk to me, tell me what you want and what you need, tell me what every touch and every sound does to you. Tell me how you will take control and what you will do with that control while resisting the urge to act on those feelings until I am ready. As much as I like to be in control, I like to have it taken just as much. When I release your bonds and offer myself to you what will you do? Then I guess we find out how far my trust goes.
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Yes, I do know where I am...
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Posted:Jul 16, 2012 8:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2013 5:33 pm
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The name and nature of this site notwithstanding, I am still who I am, looking for what I want/need without regard to what you think I should expect.
I am never suprised by crass and disrespectful comments, I just don't respond to them.
Be genuine, be creative, and be kind. Read my profile first so that neither of us wastes time if the basics don't match.
Don't lie to me, if your "relationship status" were a problem for me, I would probably be elsewhere. I won't lie to you, but I won't go into deeply personal topics either. I won't tell you where I live, I won't give you my phone number (in most cases) I don't want to talk about where I work (or where you work) or in any other way reveal personally identifiable information to a total stranger.
I like to watch sometimes, I like to be watched sometimes. I enjoy lively conversation over a drink, sexual exploration in an atmosphere of trust (which takes some time to establish). I am open to realizing more of my own fantasies and to entertaining yours as well if we are a good fit. I have never been to a club (like taboo or the farm) but would like to try that with the right person as well, if only for the exhibition factor involved. Above all, talk to me, tell me what you want and be prepared for an honest response. The way to where you want to get is through my ears.
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Truth in Advertising
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Posted:Jul 31, 2010 10:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2018 8:34 pm
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I was browsing the bling a little bit and looking at other peoples bling. I was kinda suprised that I recognized the profile pics of more than one person (or parts thereof) listed as bling...all of them listed as used by more than one person (dozens and hundreds sometimes). So, how do I know if when I open a box of corn flakes that I will find corn flakes and not just a bunch of froot loops? (I myself discovered first hand that the cereal doesn't always match the box, it was creepy and very disappointing). I get it, I really do understand the urge to bask in annonymity and to exagerate or embelish stats to one's best advantage. But, if you have blatently used a photo of someone other than yourself, do you really expect to be able to meet anyone in person? What exactly do you expect to happen when you advertise caviar and deliver beer nuts? Only a crazy person would stay long enough to hear your excuses...the rest of us run screaming in the other direction. Be whoever you want to be if all you want is an online chat-buddy, but when you want to mingle with real people, you better be who you say you are.
So, here is my brief horrer story...
I drove nearly an hour to meet someone I had been chatting and exchanging e-mails with long enough to feel like he wasn't a serial killer. The photo was attractive, not a 10 but at least a 9. Now, I am not a shallow person and I rarely make a decision based solely on aesthetics, attraction for me often results solely from conversation. So, I arrive at the predetermined very public venue, and I find that the picture was a lie. It wasn't a little lie, like the picture was 10 years 20 pounds and a head of hair ago, but a great big lie, like the guy on the profile came with the frame. I was polite, because I'm always polite; but there was not a snowballs chance in hell that I was going to stay long enough for more than a few words. Right after that meeting the jerk removed the picture from his profile. I don't need caviar (I don't even like it, it's salty and fishy and the texture is nauseating), and I can have great chemistry with a beer nut (I prefer it), but I need to know what's on the menu before I order.
Ok, that was my rant, wanna tell me yours?
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