The Rejection Game...No Thank You-That's O.K.  

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5/14/2006 10:29 pm

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The Rejection Game...No Thank You-That's O.K.


The true meaning of a looser- someone who is involved in the rejection game. Continually rejecting every offer of friendship or getting acquainted. Not everyone is rich and can offer you the world, nor is everyone a perfect 10 and I feel sorry for those who are a perfect 10. Sorry bunch.
If somone offers to hold a door open for you, offer you a cup of coffee or a piece of wrapped candy-accept their offer and say thank you. Whatever someone has to share with you at the moment may be threatening or harmful, then of course it time for the 'no thank you, that's o.k.' to come out. But, if you know the person or there is no threat or harm being offered, someone is saying something nice to you. Your rejection of that offer is your loss.
To say it is rude and offensive to 'give it back to him/her' would be putting it mildly. It's the worst in us coming out and that attitude can easily turn into a reputation. Someday, you may need that person and when you are in trouble or having difficulties coping, you never know who will come to your aid.
There is no such thing as an unimportant person. We are all here for a short stay moving at the speed of life. It is far more reputable to say 'thank you' or return the offer with an offer of your own. 'Can I get you a cup of coffee?'--- 'no, thank you, I don't drink coffee, can I get you a cup of tea?' is far more reasonable and appropriate.
Human decency is far more contagious than rejection. An outward and friendly approach to your everyday life can heighten your day by making someone else feel better about themselves.
Those people who are in the rejection game are in with a group of others who also play the rejection game. A cluster of loosers rejecting each other. And, that is their reward. Rejection!

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