Why the serious relationship?  

indianalooker 34M
15 posts
7/12/2005 8:31 am

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Why the serious relationship?

I was just curious why people are looking for a long-term/serious relationship on a sex site? There are things like E-harmony and other services for that. I thought this site was about finding people to meet and have fucking fun. Oh well, to each his/her own, but why get on herte just to say that you want a long-term agreement with a partner before getting to the fun?

redmustang91 58M  
8935 posts
7/12/2005 11:36 am

Sometimes people, especially some women, have to justify they are having the sex they desire by saying its part of a grand plan to get married. Which is why they cannot have clearly recreational sex with an attached guy. Then she would have to admit it is all about the sex. At least that is my guess.

busty_me 41F

7/23/2005 10:14 am

We need to be reprogrammed to not have guilt. For myself I want someone who is available 24/7 so we can get it on whenever we feel like it. It's pretty hard to do that with attached people.

rm_CaptMorgan05 53M
3 posts
8/5/2005 8:48 pm

I guess what I think is a combination of the two past posted comment. First women say one thing and mean another... Oh God do not attack me..... Second Honesty is relevent to the preception of ones self. They think they want and when they get what they think they change their minds..... Men are from Mars Women are from Venus..... Men have one room in their heads We fuck live, eat and survive in this one place..... Women have a seperate room for everything. They have a room for motherhood, for relationships, love, and lust all have a different place. When a man scores we are considered by the stereo type of being suave and "kewl" Women are considered sluts. I think men helped in creating the problem, so we can not bash them for the fact we set the standard now they are affaid to show us they too can just be HORNY....... Sex is sex....Making Love..... is making Love work...... AdultFriendFinder is about whatever you want it to be about...... For me it is about me....... I have found more about myself here then anywhere else. Not to fuck but to determine what I will allow myself to be involved with. I am pleased to say that AdultFriendFinder has worked..... For me I know the lines I will draw...........
PEACE OUT..... The Capt

rm_Jasmin6567 50F
5 posts
10/16/2005 6:37 am

Ok..I just had to respond to this one as well...I am/was looking for a long term, serious relationship on AdultFriendFinder. It isn't a crazy thought. I have tried the other singles sites. They suck personally!! Those people on those sites are pretending that sex isn't important or what they want. But who are they kidding? Sex is important to a relationship. It isn't EVERYTHING in one..but it is important.
I wanted to find the one man who wanted the strings attached..who is sexually compatible with me..wanting to explore..to try differnet things..the one who is open minded. Truly open minded in all aspects of life and sex. I knew that finding that man on AdultFriendFinder would be hard if not impossible. I also told myself that having fun along the way was good too and I did have some fun. I know that the majority of men on here only want to fuck..and I took that into consideration.
All I am asking is please don't think that those of us that are looking for a relationship on here are crazy. It can and does happen.
Thanks for listening!!

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