impqueen 55F
79 posts
6/9/2006 8:27 am

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Why is it that a plethora of men are intimidated by a successful woman? I am not talking about the Oprah type of successful woman. I am just talking about a woman who has made it on her own. Who has a house (along with the payments), a new car (along with the payments), who holds a well paying job (for the area), who is well respected and just who seems to have it all together.
I see many relationships break up because of this disparity. A woman is a white collar worker and is moving up in the business world while her mate is a blue collar worker who sees himself in a dead end job. Is the man intimidated by the power of his mate? Does he feel inadequate? If his mate is this successful in the real world she must surely think him inadequate in the bedroom.
This is all a bunch of hooey- The American society has put this pox on the American men. Men have been told for so long that they are the breadwinners. That they must be the strong one, that they must be "better" then their female mates. Hogwash I say...there is more to a relationship then the color of someone's money. As a woman I find comfort in having a man whom I feel safe and secure with. Who cares for me when I am ill. Who will help me around the house with menial chores. Who endures the long hours of shopping. Who can sit there and nod as I rattle off my grievances of the job all the while not having a clue what I am saying. I love having a man who is non-judgmental. Who can make love to me and make me feel like a woman.
I don't need some man's money to make me happy. I know I can make it on my own. But you see like many women- I don't want to be alone. To sleep in a cold bed with no arm wrapped securely around me. I don't want to have to go to some sleazy bar to pick up a man just to have someone to fuck me and try to make me feel wanted, like a woman.
Sure women are successful. But we are still women and we like the comfort and security only a man can offer. *does companionship ring a bell*

rm_VICT197222 45M

6/14/2006 12:38 pm

shout it out load. lol. i agree with you 100%. it shouldnt be like that but unfortunitly it is that way with most men. psssst but not with me. come on over. lol.

rm_1sthgman 70M
46 posts
7/31/2006 10:10 am

whew - glad you got that off your chest.
But you'd be surprized by some of us who don't care what the woman makes for $ as long as she contributes to the home team.
Heck I'm even a little hard of hearing, so I nod my head to most peoples conversations.
yes, it would be nice just to snuggle up next to somebody and feel their response.
Or, go on a picnic, out to lunch, etc and look into somebodies eyes to see those eyes smiling back.
and know the evening isn't over, it's just beginning.

BIGG19692 66M
1 post
11/26/2008 8:19 pm


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