Oh God...it Feels So Good.....  

impish_pixie 55F
2106 posts
4/11/2006 8:29 pm

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4/13/2006 8:47 pm

Oh God...it Feels So Good.....

As told by Gary Chapman in his book, "The Five Love Languages", everyone has their own individual "language" of love. By his definition they are "Words of Affirmation", "Gifts", "Acts of Service", "Quality Time" and "Physical Touch". Pretty self explanatory really, but it makes a very interesting read. His premise is that if you are a "Words of Affirmation" person, but your significant other is a "Gifts" person...it doesn't matter how many times you "tell" them you love them - they won't "hear" you. Give them a little thoughtful "gift" though, and they'll feel more special than a cherry covered in chocolate. Makes sense huh?

So...anyone who knows me knows without a doubt that I am most definitely a "PHYSICAL TOUCH" person. You can tell me you love me a million times, but unless you back up those words with a soft touch to my face, a hand on my lower back, or a sweet hug...I'm not gonna feel "loved". To me, there is nothing better than having someone else's hands on me. Touch me when you talk to me and I'll be leaning in before you know it.

When my life was shattered by the breakup of my marriage, a very dear friend of mine gave me the gift of a massage. I remember when I walked into the place I was actually shaking...I mean..you know what you hear about "massage"...right? Thankfully I was given into the care of a most wonderful man, with the the most gifted of hands. While I'll admit that it took me close to six months of seeing him on a regular basis before I would strip naked, at this point in our "relationship" I'd almost strip naked in front of him.

While it would seem obvious that his hands healed my tension soaked muscles, what surprised me the most was that his gentleness and incredible hands also healed my broken heart. His quietly whispered, "breathe", when he'd try an adjustment would stream through my body with a warmth that allowed total relaxation. An hour of hands constantly touching my touch starved body were probably about as close to Tantric Sex as I've ever been. No "body" orgasms per se, but more a "sense's" orgasm that would find me leaving his office with the sweetest of smiles on my face. Loved. Touched. Healed. We've been doing this for close to 10 years now and I still feel the same way every time I float out of his office. Tonight was massage night. Oh yea. And I feel soooo good.

So...Hug me....Squeeze me....and maybe I'll let you take me home.

I make mistakes, I am out of control & at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best. ~Marilyn

Scooterbabe4u 81F

4/11/2006 10:27 pm

Oh , Can not wait for the post you put up when and if there is a massage with intent other then healing on that bode of yours.
( best I get a new machine now just in case).

Blessings with the scent of burning sage to u.

impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:15 pm:
Hmmm...haven't thought about putting THAT post up. Perhaps I should...Healing does after all take on many different forms. Yes?

tillerbabe 57F

4/12/2006 1:42 am

OMG! I must read this book! ME? I must be a DICK INSIDE ME PERSON, cuz if it isn't inside me..then where is it and don't give me no damn choclates or flowers to make up for it! LOL!
(Just gettin ya back for the "pussy" comment!

impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:16 pm:
LMAO...Oh God...you really are my sister aren't you?? LLLOOOLLL...but c'mon big sis...you know the "pussy" comment was just perfect...right? LMAO

Cowboy_Deluxe 39M

4/12/2006 5:01 am

Maybe huh?

Little Imp's ya know, are innocent anyways! Ha! I'm having way too much fun with this.


impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:17 pm:
Awwww Cowboy...looks like those arms would squeeze tight... Don't think there'd be any "maybe" with you darlin. (innocently giggling)

seek_u_topia 52M

4/12/2006 6:36 am

I know what you mean...nothing better than that feeling of knowing it's going to be good...massage is so powerful...

And i've read that book...i'm a physical touch person too...unfortunately my wife is a "let's never touch" person. Surprising that i'm here, huh?

impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:19 pm:
I understand completely Seek...My ex was a "let's never touch" person too...I've got to say that life is so much sweeter now. Massage IS powerful...in so many different ways. Wishing you lots of "touch"...

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
4/12/2006 7:42 am

I need to re-read that book now....I am such a different person than even six months ago. But I am a physical touch person too. I'd love to find someone here to give a good massage. And now both you and Goddess have talked about this and I live in the same area! We need to have that lunch and let me pick your brain!

impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:20 pm:
Oh girl...I'd be more than happy to hook you up with Mr. Fabulous Hands himself...you still have my number? If not...email and I'll resend. (((hugs honey)))

kyplowboy22 62M

4/12/2006 7:48 am

What about a lil switch??? That would be touching you!! lmao Well, the up side is that maybe you will be easier to get along with for a day or two, anyway. Later


impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:21 pm:
OHHHHH uncky...you do say the "sweetest" things. A switch...how lovely. (giggle) My daughter used to love it when I'd do my Yoga class on Thurs and get my massage on Fri's - she said then she knew we'd all have a massive "chill" weekend. LOL

aascrompn 43M
6444 posts
4/12/2006 2:07 pm

I don't get a massage enough... It's been over 4 years since I've had one... sigh

impish_pixie replies on 4/12/2006 3:25 pm:
Oh darlin scrompn....that's just a shame. When you read this, stop whatever you're doing and call to make that appt RIGHT NOW. We must learn to be good to ourselves before we can be good to others. ((((big warm hug)))) (that's why I love snuggling soooo much.)

rm_KnowStuff 57M
240 posts
4/12/2006 9:54 pm

Nice to see someone write about the love languages. I've posted about them before and yeah, even with all the books disclaimers about it, I too am physical touch. I think most anyone who knows me knows this. All of the languages have impact, but the one that gets through to me in the end is touch.

impish_pixie replies on 4/13/2006 8:51 pm:
Touch is a beautiful thing. It's a "giving" thing really....Thanks for stopping by.

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