Swingers Dances.....  

imohitmontblanc 45M/42F
24 posts
11/15/2005 1:48 pm

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Swingers Dances.....

So we haven't been to any. We almost went once but it was actually sold out! We've always been a bit leery, thinking it might be better to feel out people online first....but it can't hurt to ask.

So to all of you who have been to an SOS or similar dance locally.....Was it fun? Are there people of all ages including younger people? How many people usually go? And do you think it's a good way of meeting new friends?

What do you think?

happysailing2 50M
61 posts
11/17/2005 11:50 am

All reports from attendees have been positive. Just go with an open mind and be respectful. Nothing to hard at all. Meeting online is ok but I also enjoy meeting in person. You don't have jump into bed first thing. I have meet some wonderful people, I don't think I could sleep with them all. Its not that I don't want too...time is always a problem lol. So go for it... nothing ventured nothing gained.


OriginalLilDevil 50M/46F
10 posts
11/22/2005 10:03 am

Well, to give you our opinion, and we've been in the swinging scene for 5+ years now, and we've been to a few of the local dances around town too. As happy said, go in with an open mind and positive attitude and you will have a good time. Don't forget to mingle though! If all you do is go and sit in the back corner, you won't meet too many ppl. Most times, there are ppl at the locations prior to dance time. That would be a great opportunity for you to mingle and meet some ppl. Give it a try, you won't know unless you do Maybe we'll see you there sometime...oh and if a man comes up to you and asks you to dance, chances are it's my hubby (he loves looking for the "newbies" and getting them on the dance floor to break the ice) and he would love for you to say yes....lol

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