More positive  

iggy38 47M
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5/6/2006 7:32 am

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11/22/2006 10:11 am

More positive

Positive thinking has always been a hard thing for me as i have always been a glass half empty person.

So the last few days i have been trying to be more positive about things, especially my life. Not as easy as it seems, i have always had problems with confidence and self belief, and being single now for 5 years does make you think no-one wants you.

Well the only person who can change that is me, the hard part is working out how to.

I think it will be a matter of lots of small steps which will hopefully lead to longer and longer strides.

I hope so anyway.

phoenix639 50F

5/6/2006 8:32 am

Break down the bigger picture into smaller sections. Reach a small goal...then reach another & so on.

I find thats a huge help when trying to attain anything.

Ive spent most of my adult life single as i tend to have a relationship & when its gone sour i dont do the short fling thing or one night stand so consequently i have long periods without having a man in my life.

This makes me find myself & also you appreciate anyone who is right for you much more.

Im glad i hung out anyway.

phoenix639 50F

5/7/2006 9:02 am

You are too kind.

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