being stood up: another update  

ideafilter 38M
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9/6/2006 9:41 pm

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9/10/2006 2:09 am

being stood up: another update

No phone call. It's official. Retribution is hers. I have been stood up.

I try to always give the benefit of the doubt. And I'm not mad or anything. Maybe she was nervous or had second thoughts. Only she knows.

But man it's a lousy feeling. Oh well, moving on.

ideafilter 38M

9/7/2006 10:26 pm

That's sweet, and thanks, but it's all good. I'm sure she's not crazy and I'm by no means mad. Just confused. I don't know what happened, we haven't been in contact since, but it's impossible to know whether she was nervous and didn't have the courage at the last moment or whether I creeped her out (totally possible, haha), etc. The feeling sucked at the time but, ultimately, no harm done. It was still fun to talk to her at the time.

But the story definitely illustrates the importance of clear communication to me!

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