Married men and their lies  

hunybear1969 48F
52 posts
8/20/2006 6:01 pm

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10/13/2007 11:26 am

Married men and their lies

My friend and I were talking about married men. We started going through all the lies they tell to their girlfriends about their marriage, sex life, etc. Why do they do it? Because they can! The "other women" in their lives believe these statements and the rest of us just sit back and scratch our heads. I thought I might list some of my favorites. Please add to the list if you've got any I may have forgotten.
"You know I want to leave her, I just can't right now."
"I don't love her anymore."
"We stay together for the kids."
"But I really do love you."
"I'm just confused right now."
"I'm not sure what I want right now."
"Can't you be patient?"
"My wife doesn't enjoy sex anymore."
"She doesn't understand me like you do."
Yada, yada, yada... Maybe I should write a book. Nah...these women would never read it.

They say "All's Fair..." So, I would like to add that it's not just married men who lie. Married women do it too. And it seems they use the same lies plus a few new ones.
"I really want to leave him."
"I'm looking for my own place."
"My kids (or husband) are such a burden."
"It feels so good to be with a man who understands me."

hunybear1969 48F

8/21/2006 6:41 am

Thanks for the comment. Too many women let this happen.

rm_elover100 36M

8/31/2006 4:26 pm

I'll tell you. I'm technicly still married my wife left. So in your opinion, if the roles were reversed would you think it would be wrong for me to meet someone else. I never lied to anyone.

hunybear1969 replies on 8/31/2006 5:06 pm:
"Technically" You are still married period. Take care of business, get a divorce.

rm_elover100 36M

9/1/2006 3:32 pm

thank you for your advice

QuakeWoodyBrink 57M
6 posts
9/12/2006 9:40 am

Technically married is married. I went through the difficult process of a divorce. Those that haven't don't really have the right to be "dating". Some women are naive, but the real blame still needs to be on the guys who are lying to both their wives and their girlfriends. They're reprehensible. Also, the thing about these married men with girlfriends is that it never ends well. I bet it's always a mess at some point. The reason some of these guys do this is simple,,,it's called selfishness. They grew up thinking they can do what they want whenever they want with whoever they want.

hunybear1969 replies on 9/12/2006 10:46 am:
Reprehensible and selfish...good words to descibe that type of man. Thanks for the comment.

rm_realguy4y 53M
2 posts
10/12/2006 7:30 am

ha,ha how about none of the above "lines" when your fucking a married women being married yourself you dont need to talk trash either way..

rm_Gman156000 60M
81 posts
10/15/2006 5:06 am

Technically married is married actually sucks when the state allows your X to wait out the whole 3 year period, thanks MA. It happened to me and fuck that shit, if I'm gonna get divorced it's happening and if the woman wants to hook up then that's gonna happen as well. It doesn't make these people any lesser than they are. Now who the hell is selfish if the X is dragging this out?

hunybear1969 48F

10/15/2006 7:55 am

My post was talking about married persons who have no intention of getting a divorce and lie in order to get laid. It's the creeps I'm talking about.

rm_elover105 36M

10/20/2006 5:54 am

I agree and im glad that you added that ending in. I know this sounds like a line but its usually the guy who gets the bad . When there are women who are just as sneeky if not worse. Then the two guys end up fighting and still want the girl. Its riduculous that people do that to one another. If you want out get out

rm_splmm47 45M

10/9/2007 10:32 am

I managed to keep it in my pants for an entire year between separation and final divorce, despite opportunity. I'm not superhuman, in fact far from it.

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