Is this normal????  

hotwetmama48 60F
38 posts
6/21/2005 5:39 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is this normal????

Just to make a quick entry here. It has been over two weeks now that BigThickCornwall and I have been together and I want to know something. Is it normal for me to have strong feelings for him even though I know this is just a fuck between good friends?

Maybe it's the way I was raised, the fact he's the second guy I ever slept with. Maybe it's because I have known him for years or maybe it's that he's such a great guy, but I have found myself falling in love with him. I am constantly thinking of him, I can't wait to hold him in my arms and it isn't just for the sex. I just want him close to me. Is this a normal thing for people whom are out there looking for just sex????

The hard part is IF I really am falling then where does that leave us since he is committed elsewhere? Damned if I know.


6/21/2005 11:50 am

Sexual Bond often goes behond "Chemestry" Deep intimacy may have formed and image projection (Obsessed thinking) prevail. Getan other view of casual encounter and enjoy the journey! Caroline {=}

sabbofj6 69M

6/23/2005 4:23 pm

You can love him, but can't destruct his familiy life. Meantime, you can fuck any other men. Right!

BesotSeedsSeton 57M

6/24/2005 4:06 pm

It's *very* normal, and I'm not drawing on dimly remembered psych classes in university. It's a mix of a number of things: your own emotional state, the sexual chemistry, and the fact that he seems to be a nice guy, well matched to yourself. It's very real- and, under the circumstances, rather dangerous. So, good luck!

rm_culloden2005 75M
9 posts
6/25/2005 1:30 pm

are you possibly looking for" that perfect relationship" after coming out of a divorce and the baggage that comes with all of that? Yes it is good sex and yes it was easy as you have known him before the big "screw off" and you have to admit that you were playing with fire when you got involved with a "married man" whom you happened to know and I assume his partner. Is he and her part of the scene or is he out on the loose and you were a perfect "mark"? All said and done you may want to step back and take a few cold showers. Put it all down on paper and follow the trail. I would not suggest that you should have to speak to his partner. That is his responsibility, if they do swing as a couple then she will probably gone through this all before and will again. Good luck but Mr. Thick was not available.

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