Rules vs. PASSION!!  

hottchica39 63F
82 posts
3/3/2005 3:21 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Rules vs. PASSION!!

Oh I have such a dilemma. I met this incredibly sexy man here on AdultFriendFinder. We've been chatting online for a couple of weeks now, and are very much on the same wavelength sexually and in other ways. He says it is just a matter of time before we meet. He says I will break my rules to be with him, that I want him more than I want to keep my boundaries intact.

And I am sooo tempted. He comes online and my heart races. I melt inside. I WANT him, in the flesh....not just on cam, not just in chat.

But I made myself a promise that I would NOT meet anyone in real life; I will be physically faithful. Then this little voice in me says, " have already been unfaithful by signing up here and playing!!"

So...I don't know what to do. The devil inside me says one thing, the "good girl" another.

I could definitely use some good advice!

manupforall 60M

3/3/2005 8:43 pm

Go not to the elves for advice for they will answer both no and yes.

In the end, the choice is yours.
No one else can choose for you and the rules of society are just choices someone else tries to make ahead of time.

Your body, your mind, your heart, your soul, YOUR CHOICE.

rm_Minnguy58 60M
57 posts
3/6/2005 8:22 pm

couldnt say it much better. In the end, you will be the one that had to live with your choice, so think long and hard on it before doing something that you might regret later.

sexymanxx 40M/33F

3/12/2005 11:11 am

I say balls to that darling. I take it by meeting him you will be cheating on somebody? Go for it, you only live once and the fact that you are a member here says you already are bored or frustrated with your sex life and want a little more.

Go get that guy, not promising you'll fall in love like your previous blog suggest you crave but go have some fun. That whole thing of exploring someone new, having a different man roll his tongue all over you and feel his cock slide inside you for that first time is so excitng compared with the every day normal person you are with.

If you go and love the experience, look me up next sexy. Would be happy to make someones life more exciting.

1586 posts
3/13/2005 7:05 am

You can always go by the Clintonesque theory (and I'm paraphrasing0: "eatin' ain't cheatin'". LOL

Seriously, you have to carefully consider the aftermath should you choose to break that promise to yourself. There's no going back, baby.

What seems really hot and tempting online might not translate to real life. Then you'd be extremely pissed off at yourself. (I've had that happen before. If you want the whole story, send me an email and I'll tell all. LO

Anyway, think about what you're able to live with.

ColorKoreaBulge 44F

3/17/2005 10:49 pm

I would say, keep your boundaries intact, and do not meet him. Most AdultFriendFinder "relationships" go nowhere. You will be hurt in the end. Better to take it lightly and enjoy it online.

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