How young is too young?  

hottchica39 63F
82 posts
3/22/2005 11:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

How young is too young?

I was accused of "ageism" yesterday.

This was from a 25 year old man I met in a chat room herea few days ago, who sent me a naked pic of himself (he was HOT, no doubt about it) and after a I politely refused to get further involved with him, since he is half my age, I left the chatroom and logged off.

About an hour later I logged into my message service and was immediately IMed by a stranger with a similar screenname to his name. Somehow, he figured out my screenname on this service and there he was. I immediately put him on ignore but somehow, the next day, there he was AGAIN!

This time I thought it might be best if I just explained to him why I wouldn't chat with him. I have a hard time thinking romantically/erotically/sexually about a man who is two years younger than my daughter! He said I was "prejudiced against him because of his age", much as someone might be prejudiced about someone's race or body structure.

I don't see this as a prejudice at all! It's not that I don't like younger men, I just choose not to get sexual with them!! Is that prejudice?

Comments and your opinions on this topic are most welcome!


3/23/2005 7:10 am

Too young or too old, is up to the individuals to decide for themselves. But it is NOT prejudice! It's your "preference" and there's nothing wrong with that. He is obviously not only young in age but also maturity. It sounds to me that he was trying to make you feel guilty because you shunned him. We all have our preferences and just because you don't want to have a sexual relation with a much younger man does not constitute prejudice. If he cannot understand that, then too bad for him.

mygmyg 60M

3/25/2005 12:23 pm

hottchica, definitely a preference and not a prejudice! Don't let the games this boy is playing, attempting to challenge you into accepting something of no interest to you. His game, his problem, and his immaturity.
Love the new photo that is posted in the hotlisting under the gallery mode of the site!

1586 posts
3/30/2005 7:54 pm

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a preference.

Mr. Twenty Five Year Old (going on fourteen)displayed the immaturity that we "older" ladies are trying to avoid. Beautifully, I might add!

I've had "ageism" hurled at me a couple times. I've also been called some choice names when I wouldn't allow myself to be manipulated.

Good times. LOL

2holes4u2use 40F

5/26/2005 3:59 pm

I find young men to be more trouble than the advantage of their youth. Their ability to cum 2 or 3 times is nice, but then they get invovled or want to. Most are too young to know the game or have developed any real knowledge. So give me a 30 to 40 year old with a big cock or a really dirty old man anytime.

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