The stages of relationships  

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1/5/2006 3:01 am

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The stages of relationships


The first stage:
The I am soo in love with him/her. I can't imagine my life without him/her. This of course is the dating stage. The stage where you can't get enough of one another. You call each other all the time, all you can talk about is him/her, and you are constantly wanting to with him/her. You always have to look your absolute best when you are going to see him/her.
The Second stage:
The we are a new couple stage. This is the stage that comes after dating, when you are officially a couple. you have dated for awhile and now it is official you are a couple. you now it eachother pretty well. You still call or see each other everyday. You still believe that your significant other is the eighth wonder of the world. You still can't believe you are so lucky. In this stage you are okay with not looking perfect around your significant other but you still have to look goo.
The Third Stage:
The we have moved in together stage. The we have moved in together stage. This is where you have first moved in together. If you found a brand new place together you are going through trying to learn how to co-live. if you moved into your significant other's place you are trying to make it your own. You are being ultra clean and tidy. You say alot of oh that is how you do it well that is better than my way anyway or oh that is a great place to keep that. You pick up after yourself and try not to argue about chores or about your turn at picking the show,cooking and whatever.
The Fourth Stage:
The we have lived together awhile stage. This stage is unusual because it is nothing like the other stages. Now you talk about whatever. You say yeah my significant other is pretty cool or good No longer the eigth wonder of the world. instead of listing all their sterling values the complaints come out. He never put the toilet seat down, she never takes out the trash, all he wants to watch is football, all she listens to is country and so on and so on. You now know what your significant other's living habits are really like because they are now comfortable enough with you to be messy,hog the t.v. You are now stating your opinions your turn to cook,I want to watch my show and I usually do it this way. You also will now not care what you look like. Sweat pants, hair messy, no makeup(for those that wear makeup), no perfume or colonge. This is the true stage. You now know almost everything about your significant other. You know how they really live. You deal with them on a day to day basis and yet you still love eachother and have yet to kill one another.

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