People Responding to Profiles  

RopesLoopsVicar 61M
5 posts
2/27/2005 4:23 pm

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

People Responding to Profiles

Got something here was just wondering if any of the female
members of this group could answer or men if you have the
same issue or question please post a response.

Just curious about posting responses to female members
on AdultFriendFinder at least for me. I see and try to only respond to females
or couples that either are looking for the same as I'am
or meet what I'm looking for but for some reason you
never get a response back it doesn't even show they
viewed your profile or anything. I wonder if AdultFriendFinder puts in
ads to intrigue men to respond to keep there interest peaked
or, are the people that stuck up and don't feel they
need to. I know women recieve alot more responses than men
do and really have to filter thru them but I always wonder
if they even got my message or not. Its just frustrating
to try to figure this game out. I don't like to bug people
but it seems like it, cause I might send 2 or 3 responses to
some one I'm interested in but never hear from them
just not knowing if they even got it. But I guess its part
of the game.

You know one thing AdultFriendFinder might could do is have a space so that
when someone recieves a response all you would have to do
is click a box, sorry not interested or yes, lets get intouch
or something to make it simple so you don't have to go
thru your life story everytime you want to speak to some
one again. What does every body think.


rm_Almondnut 44F
115 posts
3/2/2005 7:20 pm

"ifAdult FriendFinderputs in ads to intrigue men"

Nope. AdultFriendFinder does not do that. The AdultFriendFinder people are quite busy with keeping their websites up to date, adding new features, and working with affiliates. I've never seen anyone in the company make an account for anything other than testing the site or for their own (off work) real personal use.

rm_MrsMeToo 38F

8/7/2005 3:20 pm

My opinion is that most women are looking for women or other couples. There are tons of men on here also. I get email from single men and although I'm really not looking for men right now, I try to respond to all of them.

RopesLoopsVicar 61M
14 posts
9/11/2005 10:41 am

Well Mrsmetoo thanks for your insight and I'm glad you do respond. I don't understand men that respond to women ads when they say looking for women or couples but I guess it takes all kinds to make this world go around.

aladyinruidoso 70F
1 post
5/30/2006 6:15 pm

Hi hotrod.. I must tell you people, that I did respond to hotrod's email, and I am VERY glad I did. I, too, try to respond to emails that do what I ask them to when writing (send a picture, include my age requirement.) I have no problem telling someone I have found what I want, or that they aren't exactly what I am looking for, but thanks for writing. Being the woman I am, I never write a man first. I get a lot of emails. There are a couple other sites where you are able to see if the person you wrote to (or responded to), has opened your mail. If they don't write back, at least you know they did open it. . So... if they don't answer back.. their loss..

69baby75 45F

6/16/2008 5:17 am

hi there my HOTROD!! well it is a good thing that i did respond to you when you wrote/ a lot of people like you say only respond to those they have things in common with. in my case i am so glad i ventured out of my comfort zone or i would of never experienced the great things i did with you. YES we have to get together sometime soon and make more memorable experiences with you. kisses to ya

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