Who is the one that wants to swing?  

hot2trot696969 52M/53F
602 posts
7/16/2006 9:56 pm

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7/29/2006 11:03 am

Who is the one that wants to swing?

We just heard that one of our friends in K. Falls is splitting from her husband. This is about the fourth or fifth couple that have been in the swingers mode for some time. Also have noticed that on the AdultFriendFinder site that several couples have a introduction saying that they are now single or some such.

We were wondering how many males are the ones that get their wives into swinging? I know of several that wanted to swing but when they actually started and found that their wives really, really, liked it, they wanted to stop and the females were not ready to quit! I know of at least two that had major prolems for nearly a year. The husband was quite jealous of their wives and it nearly distroyed the marriage.

Bob and I had been talking about it for so long that we don't remember just who started first talking about it. We had done a lot of role playing in the bedroom and it just sorta fell into place one evening when we were out with friends.

We have been very fortunate with the majority of the couples that we have met and later started a group. Mostly we have succeeded in finding couples that match our own feelings without drama or bad feelings. Its more like a family grouping with sex as an added bonus. We can fuck or just have fun without sex everytime. Truly we are blessed.

Choozmi 51M

7/17/2006 12:53 am

Swinging is of course an entirely new world for me. I've never participated in it and to be honest I don't know how I would deal with it. That's one of the reasons I follow your blog so avidly: to see how you and your spouse navigate these choppy waters.

Also a lot of your stories are very hot.

seekingothers269 58M/49F
86 posts
7/19/2006 9:24 pm

A woman hits her sexual peak in her mid 30's and the man hits his peak in the late teens. So by the time they are in their mid 30's their wives are going strong and they might start having some problems with erections. They suggest swapping in the hope that they might become more virile. The wife is now getting a lot more sex than ever before and she loves it. He is still having some performance problems so he has a tendency to get jealous. (The purple pill does wonders in this regard.)

Another thought, its common to put yourself out a bit when you are with a new person, either male or female while you are just "old hat" with your partner. In other words you try to put the best "foot" forward with a new person and you will try really, really hard to pleasure her, something you don't always do with your own partner.

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