the married man  

ValidShirkRages 49F
10 posts
3/25/2005 10:05 pm

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the married man

When I was young I had a definate thing for cops. I had a lot of friends on the local force, and most of the guy's I went out with, were either cops or firefighters. I used ot go to a club, that had a cop on duty on the weekends. I got to be friendly with most of them. Well one night, there was a new cop working, I flirted with him thoughout the night, but nothing major. Well the girlfriend I was with, left with a guy, but she had my car key's in her coat. I had no key's and no way to get home at 2AM. My new friend offered to drive me home. I had to thank him for the ride home! We made out, some hevey petting, and that was it. Well the next weekend I was back at the club, and he showed up. He asked to go for a walk, and told me he was married. (He hadn't been wearing a ring) He asked me if it mattered, and I just said no. Things progressed from there. He was great! His wife traveled and he would have me follow him back to his house, park across the street, and he let me in the side door. We fucked in their bed! He had a really thick cock, and he could go for ages!
We had a lot of fun, he called me, came to my house, we went out with his friends (other cops) and generally had a terrific time. This went on for about 4 months. Then one night we were at his house, in bed and he asked me what I would do if he told me he loved me! I told him I wouldn't beleive him! That he was just infatuated. And that I would have to stop seeing him! Later while we were having sex he just looked right into my eye's and said he loved me.
The think is, that was the last time we saw each other.
I wasn't 21 yet, but since I didn't drink they always let me into the club, the next time I went his friend (who I think he used as a cover a lot) wouldn't let me in and I never heard from him again. I also never tried to get in touch with him. I know his friend had a thing for me and I alway's wondered exactly what happened. If he had his friend get rid of me, or if his friend broke us up.
Either way, it wouldn't have lasted much longer, how could I ever have trusted a married man who told his girlfriend he loved her!

lickyourpassion 45M
174 posts
3/26/2005 2:32 am

Damn interesting. Some things are touchy. U made the right call. It is hard for a guy to not relate really good sex and a sexy girl with love. Most men say it and believe it simply because they like it and anything you like a lot or much more than a lot, must be love, right? No, I agree, it isn't love, but that's how most men's minds work. Its a trip. Did U ever get over the having a thing for cops? I know some things are hard to let go (like really good sex), but you were right, it can only last so long and then it gets ugly. Sounds like you had a great time and made a memory.

rm_johnhasneeds 60M

3/29/2005 5:07 am

And here we are now, years later, married and cotemplating having affairs. I have been in that position - telling the woman that I was having an affair with (except that the affair was all in our minds and hearts, as the physical part of it never got beyond some heavy petting) that I loved her. Needless to say, because of the lack of a physical affair, we both agreed that we should end it.

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