Location X  

hornyhornysandy 43F
67 posts
1/31/2006 8:58 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Location X


I was just thinking to myself about the encounters I had with guys from the site.. And I must add that I did enjoy some, stayed in contact with others... but largely disappointed...

Hmmmm... Maybe it is time to change my profile... anyway...

I have yet to find someone who would make time for me... LOL.. Maybe I am asking for too much?... I often wonder if I require loads of attention.. Maybe I do... but then again, maybe not...

I would assume that the ladies here are searching for something... perhaps friendship, love, sex... money?!?!?!... LOL... but has anyone found what they are looking for really?... my wild guess is not...

This thing about being happy is really a mind game... you choose to be happy or you choose not.. Really it is as simple as that... I wake up everyday and I choose to be happy... I must say that I am not unhappy to the point of being suicidal... as some might have thought after reading my last blog... to all who cared *BIG HUG*

I guess like most, life just wears you down... it takes its toil... and you just get tired... to be honest I need a break… need a really good holiday... one where I do not need to worry about the kids, work, school, in-laws, parents... heck!.. just about everything...

See this is where it gets dreary … I love to travel… but it is often taken for granted that I will do the planning… the booking of the tickets… etc… I totally enjoy it…BUT just for once, just once... can’t someone do it in my place?... I just wanna take the air ticket and know for a fact that everything has been planned for me and that I don’t have to think about anything…

If I told you this, you’d properly not believe it… I and the ONE planned a rendezvous … seems that he would have some business to attend at, let’s just say, location X... and he suggested that I fly up so that we could have a really wild time… I was totally sold on that idea... plus the fact that I really wanted a break from everything and what a great idea it was!...

As time went by, I realise that I had to plan when I should fly over, so that I will not be trapped in a situation that I would be entwined with his business dealings… I also realised that I had to decide on which airline/hotel to travel/stay in… Initially I was trying my best to relent so that he would be comfortable and happy about our little trip… well.. Initially it seemed like he really wanted me to be there… I tried to get as much details from him as possible so that I could be present at location x…. but after a couple of times being told that he would normally have these things settled for him really put me off…. I was thinking to myself… I am not your damn secretary!... (he’s this hot shot businessman who earn a fair bit and he has one you see)…

As if it did not get any worse… He’s been complaining how he never would fly on a budget airline… but since I am, he would too… and rather reluctantly at that…. And he was going on and on about how expensive the hotel stay and spa packages were…
I guess he assumed that he was gonna pay for the entire trip…

OHMIGAWD!!!!... now I am having second thoughts about this whole location x thing… as much I am game on it, I can just imagine him irritable about spending on a nice romantic dinner… so I have put that rendezvous thing on hold, until he asks me about it…

I am really not interested in “mothering” another man in my life…. I think I had enough of it… I guess most ladies here would agree… What I would like is for someone to offer to take me for a nice dinner somewhere (without having to worry about the cost of dinner as the favour will be reciprocated likewise), a relaxing spa trip(without me having to plan) , a nice slow, sensual backrub (without complaining that your hands are tired), send me flowers once in a while when the moon turns blue (as you can guess, am not really a flower person, but would appreciate some every now and then)... stuff like that…

Did I hear you say that a sugar daddy might fit the bill?... Unfortunately I am not looking for one… although I have been approached by some… thanks with all my heart, but no thanks… All I want is to be looked after... someone who will tend to my needs, as much as I would tend to his…

This thing about the ONE is that he is just too busy I guess… and I don’t think I am too eager about having a relationship with someone who doesn’t even have the time to stop to sms a quick “hi”… Maybe I am the result of it… I chose not to feel too much for this guy… just to see how sincere he really is… its all the vulnerability of it… I really dun know him well enough to have feelings for him….so anyway…location X is on hold... at least for me it is…

rm_wenchang1966 48M
404 posts
2/1/2006 6:35 pm

Hi Sandy, thanks yours story. I am very strange why do you have so rich imagination.


mr_simply_me 46M
842 posts
2/2/2006 1:47 am

lol...

Well... play hard to get.. u will get what u want...
But play too hard... you will just simply loose...

So play for a draw...


hornyhornysandy 43F

2/3/2006 2:53 am

LOL... actually I didn't really play hard to get... I just don't see why I should invest too much emotion in him... yes I do like his company, his humour... but I have a man in my life who does exactly what he's doing... so really I don't need yet another like that...


mr_simply_me 46M
842 posts
2/4/2006 12:09 pm

Lol... Firstly, congrats for coming out to comment... Felt lonely commenting here...

Ok... Ok.. Agreed! You did not play hard to get..

You need something different and something special...

But if u are looking for a lover... there has been questions on the part of emotion... Is there an emotion part involved?


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