Addition or Hunger....  

hornyhornysandy 43F
67 posts
1/21/2006 10:33 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Addition or Hunger....


This thing about love making sometimes just drives me absolutely insane… Just how much to too much and how little is too little?... At which point are you considered addicted to it?... At which point do you hunger for more without being perceived as addicted to it?...

I was told by a wise chap one day that being addicted to making love was bad… however if you hunger for it, that’s okay… this set me thinking… okay…

So I search the meaning of hunger, and here’s what it means:
1 a : a craving or urgent need for food or a specific nutrient b : an uneasy sensation occasioned by the lack of food c : a weakened condition brought about by prolonged lack of food 2 : a strong desire

and here’s what addiction mean:
1 : the quality or state of being addicted 2 : compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal; broadly : persistent compulsive use of a substance known by the user to be harmful

and addicted means:
1 : to devote or surrender (oneself) to something habitually or 2 : to cause addiction to a substance in

Now take this all in the context of making love, isn’t the consistent hunger to make love, and enjoying it tons, the yearning for more, is in actual fact being addicted to it? ... Come on… if you are hungry to make love again, right after making love, isn’t that an addition… well if you were to take its definition literally…

I am talking about making love and not having sex… read my previous blog…

I have no issues with being addicted to making love… does anyone? ... In fact, if given a choice I would be really happy being addicted to making love … cos I know its not the “wham, bam, thank you m’am” scenario…

Someone enlighten me… I uncontrollable yearn to make love to my hubby all the time…. Would that be bad or harmful? ... is that just hunger?... or is that an addition?... Just how much is too much? ... once a month?.. twice a month?....once a week?... twice a week?... daily?... twice daily?...

Isn’t a habit, something which you do out of routine? Curious me just fond out what habit means:
a. a behavior pattern acquired by frequent repetition or physiologic exposure that shows itself in regularity or increased facility of performance b : an acquired mode of behavior that has become nearly or completely involuntary.

So how is making love, which often a “habit”… bad / harmful?....

Okie… I guess if you malfunction and all you can think of is making love… you can’t eat / sleep / think / work…. I guess at that point it would turn harmful or bad.… but I think that’s a different story altogether….

mr_simply_me 46M
842 posts
1/21/2006 7:01 pm

Hmm...

We can lament here all we want lor.. have discreet ones....

BUT Don't let love making destroy one happy marriage to some extend... This may cause self destruction for some.

Cheers
MSM


rm_wenchang1966 48M
404 posts
1/22/2006 6:08 pm

Where we can making love? I can not wait.


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