Risk Loneliness or Relationship....its better when shared  

horizon3two5 43M
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7/9/2006 11:41 pm

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Risk Loneliness or Relationship....its better when shared

If there wass any doubt about how genuine and real people can be on AdultFriendFinder, reading mermaidslut will give you the shot of skin to skin that is void on your fan whirring CPU.

I thought I would give her a mention as I wanted to post my response below to hers [post 419250]. She deserves credit for getting me to think about Relationships versus Loneliness. At the end of thinking about it, I was empowered to take my time and allow my search for a relationship to happen naturally, a little bit of productivity and enthusiasm doesn't hurt either)


Hi there Mermaid,

Well said. I think you have captured the dilemma of broken hearts in the wilderness called loneliness.

The joy and strength of being independant and its gate keeper, the quiet subtle price of loneliness. It's like interest, you can't feel it until you pay the bill.

Hence the merry-go-round of millions that have gone before us, who risk one more time. Their hope is, that this time the tender closeness of a relationship will last longer than the last.

In our heart of hearts we know we must take the risk. We know that the risk of being hurt can be overcome, just look at yourself now.

I think we are inevitably nudged to take the risk, notwithstanding our fears, somewhere in our subconscience we weigh the pounds of potential heart ache.

On the left a lifetime of wandering and searching for relational fullfillment in things that do not have a heart beat. On the right, moments of fullfillment with someone warm, and caring with the ever looming possibility of relational disaster or, if we are lucky, eternal bliss.

For me, I will take the road on the right.

Mermaidslut 51F

7/10/2006 11:06 pm


Mermaidslut 51F

7/15/2006 9:16 am

right, two steps forward now which way to the lake?

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