daddies words..  

horatio1815 47M/37F
155 posts
2/19/2006 12:34 pm

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daddies words..

in light of some of the wonderful words i recieved from my last post, and in light of a recent conversation regarding that post with a certain elysian plaesure, i thought i would try and post some of the things that i was taught to overcome the adversity i have known. and then we will forget it loll and get on to more pleasurable topics..
my dad never knew what happened to me. he was a fiercly protective father in the sense that he was not afraid to maim and kill for me. some would say like all fathers, one difference, my father was a sensai and a stereetfighter. i remember him in the summer when i was five, taking me into our garden every night, to teach me about what he called "a strength anyone can learn" the strentgh to act. so basically he taught me how to fight.
he taught me that if a grwn man grab me and/or picked me up from behind, all was not lost, his words stuck in my head and have saved me on more than one occasion. he said, "my baby, bite. and if you taste blood bite harder. even the strongest man will let go and give a second, for you to RUN TO ME." it really works.he taught me that as a child and a woman, my head will always be harder than my wrists, so he taught me to "snap butt" which is short and sharp, requires little space and minimal contact. with ferocious outcomes (see earlier posts) its basically a head flick backwards or forwards that you pull back from very quickly, giving the contact more power in less time, then he said RUN. he taught me to heel palm literally what it says, with the heel as it tends to be easier for women who arent very strong. on the nose, he taught me to kick down on the shins, [especially in heels,] thus scraping the flesh off your attackers most sensitive part of the leg. like stamping but with contact lol.the sensitive part at the top of the collar bone [in the dip] is particularly painful when it has a finger rammed into it, giving you the time to RUN. there is so much more, but i would be here all night so i'm gonna stop now. i would just like to say in closing, i AM NOT A MAN HATER so boys please please please dont take offence. i am a and a paedofile hater. this post is not meant to offend, just to inform some of the vulnerable people that i know are out there, that they dont have to be. take it easy.xxxx

elysianpleasure 48M

2/19/2006 1:01 pm

Thanks horatio... both for you conversation and for your post. A great deal to teach our daughters. Your father did a good job teaching you these things. Many fathers, even with his skills, wouldn't have taught a daughter all of this.

What I like most about this... is that it is not acceptance... it is fighting back. Many of the post in my blog when I boil them down are about teaching acceptance of a cruel world. Your message... is about fighting back and not being a victim. I prefer that lesson for my daughter.


horatio1815 47M/37F

2/19/2006 1:59 pm

my father is an amazing man, full of fear, admirationand love. like most "real" fathers out there i imagine. but of course i hold a special place for my own. acceptance, has its place, but so does fighting back. you and yours will all be fine. spk soonxxxx

Deepthroat215 53M
328 posts
2/19/2006 2:52 pm

Your last post was a revealing one that showed your strength. I'm glad your father was able to build a strong foundation for you and it's obvious where some of that strength came from. You are amazing.

horatio1815 47M/37F

2/19/2006 3:25 pm

deepthroat. not amazing, just not giving in lol. spk soon xxxx

horatio1815 47M/37F

2/19/2006 3:26 pm

wordsmith2004. glad u got something from it! lmao. thanks for dropping byxxxx

muscles4u2have 56M
1645 posts
2/20/2006 10:54 am

Wow, just read some of your posts. Hard to believe all that shit happened to you. That is horrible!! Glad you still don't hate men. Now I Know why you put in my post afraid, loved, and fustrated. You must be a very strong willed lady!! Love you for that!!

horatio1815 47M/37F

2/20/2006 8:52 pm

muscles4u2have hi there! thanks for droppin by. i dont hate men lol. i love men!!! but of course i am talking about real men, who dont feel the need or urge to overpower anyone. ive met some nice ones here. take care xxx

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