Why is it...  

heteromaniac 46M
8 posts
2/23/2006 7:24 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why is it...

..that women act interested when you are not paying them any attention or you are telling them about themselves.
I'm on a layover in Ireland with some of my co-workers. There's this one girl that kinda gives me the eye, but she starts talking to me about a guy she's been dating. Anyway, to make a long story short, we get to Ireland and my co-workers all go hanging out without me. They buy some booze and they come back to the hotel. They go to sleep with plans to go eat later, then drink in 1 of their rooms and then go clubbing. They didn't call me for any of these activities. I called them for every move I made though. I run into 2 more groups from the job that are staying at the same hotel. I start hanging out with them. I buy 3 bottles of booze and we get a private conference room in the hotel and set up a little party. Music and all. The girl that I initially spoke about comes in and I ignore her. She persists to try to get my attention, so i start to tell her how her and the rest of the crew's behavior was. She then leaves with an attitude as if she's hurt by my comments. All this from someone who didn't care to include me in any of her plans for the entire day. How should I take that? When you see me not affected by your insensitivity and having a better time than you, you want to be apologetic? A little too much too late. Don't you think?

rm_klittykatt4u 46F
15 posts
2/23/2006 9:09 pm

My opinion?

Not that you asked but here goes:

You're too handsome to be stressing over this woman. Let her go! In the meantime, don't fret over the social snub. Just go with the flow, chill and let the REAL ladies come to you. They will! Go out and have fun with the guys or with yourself. If you see an attractive woman, just go up and talk to her. Smile and roll with it--set all games aside.

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