Is it wrong?,,,,,,  

heteromaniac 46M
8 posts
2/10/2006 1:16 pm

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Is it wrong?,,,,,,

to get sexually involved with an 18 yr old girl when you are in your 30s. I Djed this party at a local college yesterday and there were 2 girls giving me the eye the whole night. Both of them turned out to be 18yrs old. Now I know they both are fucking....but they are probably on a maturity and experience level that doesn't measure up! Not to say that I am on this "holier than thou" level when it comes to sex and intimacy and relationship, but I have to believe that the likeliness of us not being compatible in that way, is very high.
And I must admit that had I not been at a college, I probably wouldn't even have asked! But, there are 17 yr. old women walking around college campuses, so I found it VERY appropriate in this case.
Needless to say I took one of the girl's phone number. I don't know if I should even bother to call. I doubt it would be more than a sex thing, and if it were, I probably would tell her before we went there (that's just how I am!), but it the potential drama that I'm concerned about.
I think back to all the strip clubs I have been to that had 18 and 19 yr old girls working there. I have no problem partying with THEM! And if there were some activities that went beyond a lap dance, I had no problem accepting the challenge. And when I hang out in other countries, there is NO TELLING how young some of those girls are! I guess when there is potential to interfere with someone emotionally, it's a lot more risky!
What do think I should do?

crazygurl2xx 58F

2/10/2006 2:09 pm

Whatever both of you can agree to do as consenting adults. When I was 19 I dated a 31 year old attorney who rode a Harley. Gawd, I loved that man, not in the marrying kind of way, but as a friend and sex partner and companion. He was awesome and we stayed friends for years afterwards.

rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
2/11/2006 4:26 am

i think it is your own judgement call to make, cos there is certainly nothing immoral about it. but if you feel the doubts that you have expressed here, then i would suggest that maybe your doubts are trying to tell you something -- and maybe give them space to hear them out completely?

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