Taking requests...  

hereforyou6217 44M
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4/9/2006 3:53 pm

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Taking requests...


Well, in a past post I mentioned that I met a couple who met, fell in love, and got married, all because of this site. frogger1995seems to think that this story would give people hope for their own journeys and meetings on this site, so... Who am I to deny such a lovely lady? Heh...

I met my first couple at Waffle House. Yes folks, my first threesome began at Waffle House. How very southern of me. The couple I was meeting were older than me-- certainly not Old with a capital O, but the age difference was not insignificant. But we sat at the Waffle House and talked for probably about an hour, just discussing who we were, what we did, our likes and dislikes... first date conversation, really. As I sat and talked to them, I noticed things about them. These were two people in their late forties and early fifties, but there was something much, much younger-seeming about them. I just couldn't put my finger on it for a while.

So at some point in the conversation, I excused myself to use the rest room. When I came out, he invited me to go over to their place for a while. I, of course, accepted. So I went over there.

And... yeah. It was fun.

So afterward, we're all just hanging out and relaxing, basking in the afterglow, I guess you could say. And at some point, the subject of their marriage came up.

"Oh, we met through the site," he said.

"Really?"

"Yeah. We met up, got together, and fell in love, and it's all because of AdultFriendFinder."

Apparently, she had been in a very stifling marriage. She'd spent twenty-odd years raising children more or less on her own. And after that ended, she felt like there was a lot she'd missed out on. This was a woman who, in her early to mid forties, had never experienced an orgasm. So whatever she felt like she'd missed out on, she didn't feel like missing out on it any longer.

So she put an ad up on A FF. Yeah, she had some bad dates. Some BAD ones. But after a while, she met this guy. He was sweet, he made her laugh, and when they got into bed... he knew just how to make her climb the walls. And he'd been a swinger for quite some time, so he introduced her to the pleasures of bisexuality, and group sex. And she loved every minute of it.

And laying there with them, it was the most amazing thing in the world. Here were two people who seemed absolutely made for each other, yet they hadn't met until the middle of their lives. So, frogger, this is a hopeful story in many ways. There's the part where yeah, they met on the site, so it's a success story for the site. But on top of that, it takes the notion of people who panic about not being married by age 35 and dumps it on its head. It's not too late. For love, it's never too late.

frogger1995 40F

4/9/2006 4:15 pm

Thanks for the update! I guess my last post should have an addendum...


cuteNEway 42F

4/30/2006 10:36 pm

This post makes me realize that there may still be a glimmer of hope for me...I always thought that with 3 strikes against me I was screwed. And not in the good way! I'm 30, I have 2 young kids and I'm overweight. I have this internal battle with myself over whether or not I will ever find someone. I guess what awaits me is what these people have...minus the bisexuality and the swinging...OK maybe the swinging wouldn't be so bad (TEE HEE).


hereforyou6217 replies on 5/15/2006 12:35 pm:
Oh, I'm sure there's something wonderful awaiting you. Whether it's swinging, or bisexuality, or just a "regular" relationship (whatever that means), there's something out there. We get so goal-oriented in this culture... It's a wonder anyone's happy at all.

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