PS. One for the Gossips...  

helga_hansen 50F
3122 posts
6/6/2006 12:41 pm

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6/27/2006 12:23 am

PS. One for the Gossips...

In my haste to make the curtain call, I was extremely thoughtless, and forgot the impact it would have on someone I consider to be very close to me. To those regular readers of my blog, you will know that I have a wonderful Bit On The Side, someone who makes me very happy, and who brings a smile to my face every single day.

I’d like to state here and now that NO, WE HAVE NOT FALLEN OUT!!! No, he has not “dumped” me, and no, I have not “disposed” of him. He is still very much an important feature in my life, and there is so much more I could tell you about him, but I think that those of you who know him, know these things already.

I am simply taking time out to spend doing all the little things that have fallen by the wayside. There are only so many inches of dust a house can live with… even the spiders are begging me to dust the house, as their webs are collapsing under the weight of the dust! I have a fridge magnet somewhere that says ”You can touch the dust, but please don’t write in it!”, but if it carries on at this rate, you’re going to need a hammer and chisel to carve out the words!!

My son also seems to be growing faster than the weeds out in my garden (another much-to-be-done project), so I think I need to spend some time with him… before I know it, he’ll be heading off to uni, and I won’t know where the time has gone!

Finally, I just some need time out for me. I’m sure we’ve all had those moments, where we just want to pull the blinds down, and take the phone(s) off the hook, and just listen to the birds singing in the garden, sit outside and watch the sun go down, and simply chill!!

So, please… before you go thinking that my
Bit On The Side has done the dirty, or vice versa… he hasn’t and I haven’t. He knows where to find me, and I know where to find him.

It’s just an intermission, remember? Oh, and listen out for the bell, because I will be back!

Love, hugs and kisses from ♥♥HH♥♥

Wackytits 54F

6/6/2006 2:22 pm

Hey....I think we've ALL been there.

Enjoy your time with your Son and HOUSEWORK!

Also enjoy your BOTS.

Just remeber, if you need ANYTHING! You know how to find me.

Will still miss you.

J xx

racingcrazy67 50M

6/7/2006 10:31 am

Boy am I so glad to hear that there is not a problem with you and your "bit on the side".

This place is very addictive and one day soon I might even leave my flat to go out!!! Then again........

Always look forward to hearing from you, and you know where to find me!


rm_LilBlondeNZ 41F
1028 posts
6/8/2006 10:11 am

I have a bit on both sides.

Hence the need to go back to the gym.



GoddessOfTheDawn 106F
11240 posts
6/10/2006 4:33 am

just have fun, it's yours and your BOTS's opinion and feelings that count, nobody elses

~ smilez ~

HBowt2 60F

6/11/2006 3:52 am

I knew it was contagious....everyone seems to need a bit of time out at the moment....I wonder has it anything to do with the weather....seems the sun might highlight some of the dust .....make the garden grow....draw us away from the computer.....not such a bad thing....

UnpinAfireFaust 58M

6/11/2006 11:37 pm

I'll just tell you to go back and read Wacky and Goddess' comments, Helga...because they are the same as mine.

TabithaElectra79 39F

6/12/2006 10:18 am

I second what Goddess says...

...and I'll be listening for t'bell

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