Is It Too Much To Ask?????  

heavensent11236 53F
2577 posts
9/3/2006 8:59 am

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Is It Too Much To Ask?????

OK, rant time!!! Someone posted a thread about whats your fantasy, it's not like I have some really strange or bizarre fantasy, I think it's pretty easy.
My fantasy is to be tied up during sex, I don't exactly think thats an extremely unusual fantasy.
You'd think I was asking for something REALLY bizarre though, since to date I'M STILL WAITING!!!
I think I have this fantasy because I have a life where your basically always in control, you have to be, high stress job, a lot of people depending on you, not just at work but with life in general. So, I think I have this fantasy because for once I can give up control.
I'm fairly sure that once I've actually lived out this fantasy that I'll be able to go to the next one.
So, what's your fantasy?

FLfantasyman 65M

9/3/2006 10:14 am

Heaven - why rant - I certainly didn't see any response that was making fun of your fantasy? Of course it's perfectly legitimate!
I've been on both sides of this fantasy, but only a couple of times and you are VERY correct - it IS about giving up control and TRUST.
It is also very much about being able to relax totally and just think about receiving pleasure without having any worry about whether you are giving that pleasure back equally - there is an implicit agreement that this is you YOU not him ahead of time and that's perfectly fine.

heavensent11236 53F

9/3/2006 10:36 am

Flfantasy- sorry to have been rather vague. I wasn't ranting about anyone thinking that my fantasy was strange or anything, I was ranting about the fact that I HAVEN'T had the fantasy in real life, even though I've never really made it any big huge secret.

Passion247000 47F
3195 posts
9/3/2006 1:54 pm

I don't think it is a strange fantasy...I think a lot of people have that fantasy... I personality have not tried that but with the right person, I would love to try it.... asked~~~

As for my be with the chick in the pic...what a body!!! ~ mmmm....the legs.... (and I am not ashamed of my bisexuality anymore than voicing my fantasy...)

toothysmile 51M
16517 posts
9/3/2006 2:00 pm

oh... my fantasy is much more mundane i'm afraid. i've crossed the atlantic 30 times and still haven't joined the mile high club. and well, there's one more...
incidentally... tell me what you think.
I moved behind her
i wonder if that's what you more or less had in mind...

rm_roverusa2006 67M

9/3/2006 2:02 pm

heaven, no problem. i've been a nudist for years and really enjoy the freedom. i love your profile and wish you included more about yourself. still trying to get my damn camera to take time lapse pics so i can send one. have a good day. peace and love

heavensent11236 53F

9/3/2006 4:48 pm

Passion- I couldn't agree with you more, regarding the body on the female in the pic, for me it's not just about the legs though they do look amazing don't they? It's the entire body. Was thinking about photocopying that pic and posting it on the fridge as a motivational/stay away from the damn junk food and actually start using the gym kinda thing.

Toothy- in a perfect world I'd like airplanes but I think they are one of those necessary evils, but there is NO WAY you'
d get me out from under that seat belt to even think about the mile high club. lol

Rover- not sure exactly but agree with you about the nudist thing, maybe I'm just a closet nudist thats finally figured it out. As for posting info about me? That takes me some time, I'm not normally an overly trusting person. Maybe I'll do what I've seen others do and when I hit my 100 post I'll answer all questions.

1Sir_Lancelot 61M

9/3/2006 5:01 pm

Well I don't know why you haven't done it yet. I'm like FLfantsy, I've been on both ends but have to admit that I enjoyed it either way. The way I worked it out with the person was to basically arrange ahead of time that we would make it happen. We would pick a day but leave the time open so that the other person didn't know when the other was going to show up and tie them up. That added to the excitement factor.

lookin4girth 51F

9/3/2006 6:19 pm

Don't laugh too hard, but mine is to look like the picture you used for your blog! LOLOL

Once I find that $30K... I'll be able to do that body overhaul that needs done.. hehee



9/3/2006 6:22 pm

Have had the same fantasy.... ok have done the fantasy... woooohooooo

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat

rm_Kingcat4U2 66M
2799 posts
9/3/2006 8:01 pm

So, your fantasy is about giving
up control?

Would you like to borrow one
of my cats? They'll even
handcuff you to the can opener!

rm_MisterFrumpy 47M
428 posts
9/3/2006 8:51 pm

guessing you havent met the right guy or you havent really conveyed that its one of your fantasies to said guy. I dont think a lot of guys are just gonna grab something to tie you up without some notion that it wont land them in prison.

rm_Masato13 64M
128 posts
9/4/2006 11:01 am

Sex and bondage can be a mind blowing experience to be sure! A down fall to it that I have learned the hard way is getting untied afterwards as you can see.

rm_dingo397 52M
12 posts
9/4/2006 3:34 pm

ok ok ok ....I got it..Just looking for the right restraints.Oh boy i'm gonna have some fun...Just remeber, your gonna cum and cum and cum. and when you tell me to stop,i'M GONNA MAKE YOU CUM AGAIN. you know there's really no downside for either one of us ...Babe i know this has been a fantasy of yours for some time now,but its hard to get you into the mood, when your so Damn tired from work, and when your off you just want to relax and blog ...So i guess i'm going to have to take you, tired or not .....

heavensent11236 53F

9/4/2006 6:09 pm

L4G- I don't blame you a bit, and I'm definately not laughing, hell, I'm about to copy the damn pic myself, post it up on every mirror in the place and get my lazy ass working on looking like that.

Frump- BELIEVE me I've conveyed!!!!!!!

MRSMUFF-- hey girl

1Sir- class in action, thank you!

King- I don't want something that high maintenance and cats ARE high maintenavnce, plus I have enough of my own attitude, why do I want to deal with some animal looking at me like I'm the dumbest person they've ever met, lol.

Masato- thats why God invented knives, to get out of those pesky restraints

rm_bucfannn 62M/61F
2110 posts
9/4/2006 8:07 pm

Heh. My main fantasy will remain such, as I said in the TASA board. I've lived a ton of others though. Now, I'm thinking up new ones

rm_gooddick2002 55M

9/5/2006 12:07 pm

you are a very hot looking woman i love to meet you someday so Email me ok

rm_Masato13 64M
128 posts
9/5/2006 2:25 pm

Indeed God did invent the knife heavensent. However since the serpent got hold of Eve she has not been in much of a mood to pass it to me.

Xeryien 53M
1448 posts
9/6/2006 10:36 am

Hey Heaven - just wanted to check in and say 'Hi'...
I can't understand why you have had such trouble getting yourself tied up... (Pun intended!) But don't rush into it - there is an incredible trust issue! (duh)

And I might suggest JTStockroom for some restraints - they may coast a bit - but damn they can be comfy! (And knives ain't gonna help you out!)

rm_gatttorbait 58M
444 posts
9/7/2006 2:40 pm

... I feel a little tongue tied right about now ... hehe

heavensent11236 53F

9/7/2006 2:51 pm

Great pic Gator. How many times am I going to have to remind you to give me PLENTY of warning when your coming in?? I have to work Saturday so seriously doubt I'll be able to make it to the M&G

Tone_33756 56M

9/13/2006 7:13 pm

Long time, no see

My fantasy is TYING YOU UP!!!!!!!!!

One day.....maybe one day.....

I also know another somewhat perverted fantasy you have that I'm willing to

Tone: the most agreeable man in TASA!!

Hope all is well - I don't get on chat anymore due to job change but hopefully we can talk sometime soon.

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