The Big Head Versus The Little Head  

heavensent1123 53F
447 posts
4/10/2006 4:09 am

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The Big Head Versus The Little Head


This is my deep thought for the week. It came about totally by accident.
Things are going great, you meet some guy or are involved in a relationship of some type, doesn't really matter. Things are going great, you're talking, flirting, your getting all turned on, your thinking about what your planning to do with said guy tonight, this is the female perspective.
Thats when it happens, he opens his mouth and says something unbelievably stupid. In a matter of seconds he has just managed to talk himself out of the coochie.
Guys, you blame the little head for the things you do, me, I think you should be blaming the big head. The little head is now going Fuck, you just managed to make sure we didn't get laid.
From now on, I'm going to be doing the thinking because all you do is mess it up for both of us.

softnlush 54F

4/10/2006 4:54 am

LOL ...I know of which you speak..and it has happened to a few guys down the line of my experiences..as I always say..Men are just boys trapped in taller,hairier packages..I still love 'em,but you need to remember that..and sorry if any guys get offended..this is truly meant to be taken with just a grain of salt

~~~snl~~~


lifes2short069 50M
138 posts
4/10/2006 5:21 am

open mouth and insert a long lonely night.... been there done that.
but as i get older, i've learned to keep my yap shut unless its for business .

l8r m8 L2S


lawman_chris 47M
12 posts
4/10/2006 6:55 am

He must feel like a total loser to have lost his chance at a slice of Heaven. I am a man, and have like all men, said many stupid things. You know I have been told that I shouldn't think so much with my big head... maybe there's some truth to this.


AltumHunksUnite 54M

4/10/2006 7:02 am

I guess that depends on what was said. Deal-breakers can be as simple as a man saying he hates cats to a woman who owns three of them, and on the other extreme, him saying he wants her to have sex with another woman while he watches and she's totally straight.

So... what was his deal-breaker?

Let me drive. I like the view


nevertootall4u 54M

4/10/2006 8:17 am

and dont forget, U also have to ask for directions. men may have 2 heads, some cant even think with EITHER (lol). remember, brain still most powerful "tool". have U seen my brain lately


Tone_33756 56M

4/10/2006 12:11 pm

My little head and big head work reasonaly well together...lol

I'm with Cleavis, I'd love to hear the rest of the story...


heavensent1123 53F

4/10/2006 6:46 pm

Is it just me or does lawman chris's silhouette look unbelievably sexy?? Any guys actually answering this question will make me very nervous, and lawman chris too.

As for the rest of the story, not referring to anything recently just thinking about past things, so no story here for most part but could write a book about the dumb things that are said.


swingweight3 57M

4/11/2006 5:27 am

In the reversal-aspect & to let you lovely ladies know there is a similar situation that happens to us, the; '2-headed-gender'...

Imagine those special times when both our 'heads' are working together - like a perfectly tuned engine...we 'pass' your strict standards in the looks Dept., do a great job in public, (a nice dinner perhaps) converse on all subjects, allowing your point of view not just to be heard, but sincerely respected & appreciated, honestly complimnent you on how you look tonight - pointing out how other men are 'snapping' their necks to drool over you - all the while our male-eyes never wandering towards anyone but you...

The '2-headed-engine' is really motoring - perfectly in-tune!

As you are both drawn to one another passionately later in the evening when finally alone, both 'heads' are running on all cylinders...pleasing 'you' in all ways imaginable - until that is...you cry out in complete pleasure...another man's name.

Even without having 'ears' the little head hears this and all 'engines' come to a complete stop...

That 'sucks' more for the 'big-head' then the little one - honestly the big one really does control the 'little-one'.


heavensent1123 53F

4/11/2006 7:12 am

I have NEVER done that, called out another guys name, when I am with a guy sexually I am with him, the fantasy of another guy never comes up.


lawman_chris 47M
12 posts
4/11/2006 1:23 pm

    Quoting heavensent1123:
    Is it just me or does lawman chris's silhouette look unbelievably sexy?? Any guys actually answering this question will make me very nervous, and lawman chris too.

    As for the rest of the story, not referring to anything recently just thinking about past things, so no story here for most part but could write a book about the dumb things that are said.
Ms. Heaven thank you for noticing the hard work that goes into maintaining a silhouette as sexy as mine. LOL.


swingweight3 57M

4/11/2006 4:48 pm

Lovely Hevenly, (as well as all the other women reading this)

No implication to this being directed to you, (or any other ladies in my reply!) Just a reflection of an actual "happening" on my own account/situation - therefore, simply (my) showing/stating, etc that there are "those" happenings on both aspects of "gender" where we all in unison, go..."Hummm!?!"

Lastly...to add humor to end this, she said, (and I do believe her with both "heads") that I was by far the best she'd has so far...

I still asked who the 'heck' was/is Steve...?"

Go figure...


SirMounts 103M

4/29/2006 11:32 pm

Boy, I'm sure glad girls never say anything stupid. *winking*
Thanks for your very nice blog, heavensent. *smiling*


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