Getting to Happy  

heavenly_body39 61F
740 posts
4/30/2006 8:24 pm

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Getting to Happy

I heard some interesting feedback from a new friend last night. He said, 'you are so unhappy; I feel it roll off you in waves. There is no reason for you to be so unhappy, you are beautiful, intelligent and there is no reason you cannot have everything you want."

"You undervalue yourself as a woman; you have no idea how you rank in the overall world of women in terms of quality." Furthermore, he added, "you are like undervalued stock, it shows in your demeanor and the way you hold yourself. If you are not careful, you may be acquired in a hostile takeover."

Wow... his words hit me like a huge thumping whomping pillow. I listened to his feedback with interest and I'm still considering the feedback, weighing its truth and value.

I know I am in a transition period as I take stock and look around with clear eyes and head, at least as clear as I can be. It still feels as though I am moving up a sanddune, slipping down as I head up that hill.

I will get to happiness in my own way and time.

blondietickler 44F
295 posts
4/30/2006 9:41 pm

won't we all.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
4/30/2006 10:07 pm

I think that sometimes when you seem to have the things that others, intelligence....they just don't understant why you aren't happy. The happiness comes from within...and you will find it.

prof2048 69M
9 posts
5/1/2006 7:59 pm

Unhappiness has such a negative connotation. Perhaps not quite satisfied with present situation. I believe top of sandune affords great view of ocean.

Eroticartist136 57M

5/3/2006 10:03 pm

Happiness, ultimately, is a choice, nothing more. If you chose to be happy and to find happiness in life, in any situation, you will. Most people are unhappy because they are not ready to be happy. So when you are ready, choose.


heavenly_body39 61F
157 posts
5/6/2006 8:26 am

Wow, folks,

thanks for your very interesting and supportive comments. i appreciate this blog community in so many ways!

thanks and hugs...

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