Out of Ink  

rm_harshawj 52M
761 posts
8/9/2005 6:18 pm

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Out of Ink

I have a new rule here on AdultFriendFinder. I will not under any circumstances comment to people on my blog by entering a response comment.

Did you bloggers know that it was against the TOS to abuse your blog by commenting to people who comment? I did not, but apparently this is the case as I am learning right now. So, I guess if I am to keep this blog running, then I have to refrain from making comments on my own blog. I guess I can comment on other peoples blogs, but just not on my own.

I would suppose that we are going to see a lot of people locked out of their AdultFriendFinder accounts and the blogs summarily shut down now since commenting on ones own blog is such a common occurrence. After all, it would not be fair to ban one AdultFriendFinder member and not ban all those others who committed the same egregious act. Would it?

In fact, I would suppose that this blog may very well be closed down very soon for my violation of the terms. If so, and if anyone see this, it is a shame that things may indeed be as unfair as they may seem to be.

Or, of course, there is the obvious, and that is that we are allowed to comment and hold a banter on the blog (part of the intent of a blog) and the banned user will get her account back and an apology for all the trouble.

So, if from here on in you do not see me commenting on my own blog, you will know why. But, I cannot see where I could not reply to you users by making another post. So, maybe I will work it that way.

So, to that banned user, and all those that ay be banned in the near future, myself being one of them, I hope to see you all around the net somewhere. And if you know me and want to communicate and know where I am doing my blogging, send me a private email and I will let you know.

BTW, you may find me at the name of my blog, elsewhere on the net.

sincitybrunette 56F
1668 posts
8/9/2005 10:57 pm

it really is sad when someone cant respond to a comment on their own site with their own words....

rm_txrose4uNTX 58F
3289 posts
8/10/2005 1:49 pm

I certainly have to agree. What are they thinking? Part of the beauty of the blogs on AdultFriendFinder site is that, because of the bantering on the comments, it leads to a conducive nature of meetups and hookups, which is supposedly the intent of AdultFriendFinder, isn't it???? Sometimes I definately have to wonder..... It would seem that they are cutting their own throats by making such a rule. Your project is wonderful, albeit still a mold in creation. I hope that others will join us all there.

patsam69 52M/52F

8/10/2005 6:45 pm

wow...really? that is crazy. If I post a comment on someones blog...I go back to see if they resonded. I think many of us WANT a response. I respond to comments on my blog. I did notice that some people comment separately, thus having more comments. I try to remember to put them all on one reply. SIGH.. I hope the powers that be don't go crazy with this.

Mccartney2003 39M
281 posts
8/10/2005 10:24 pm

what? That's crap. And you got slammed for posting on your own blog? Shit I guess we are all damned.

nightstogether 58M

8/10/2005 10:41 pm

You highlight another reason why I have moved to another blogging service for my more serious posts. My most recent - at the time of commenting - entry gives the other reasons for the move.

private-intellectual (.de)

007sexy40plus 52F  
7603 posts
8/11/2005 12:00 am

This is all new to me. I had no idea that this had gotten this bad. I enjoy seeing what others have said back to me in their blogs and I also enjoy giving them feedback after a comment. I actually enjoy the site but if I get kicked out I guess that would be the end of my four (4) year stint here.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"


8/11/2005 12:39 am

I have emailed customer service to see if this is indeed true or a hoax, It is no where stated in the rules or terms of service. So how can we be in violation if we are not aware of it.

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