May September  

rm_harshawj 52M
761 posts
7/19/2005 5:59 pm

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May September

We all know that the women on AdultFriendFinder get hit on a lot more than the men. In fact, for a guy like me to be even looked at by anyone under the age of 30 is a rare thing. On the other hand, I know for a fact, that older women get hit on by younger men, sometimes much younger and quite often.

So, when I read my AdultFriendFinder email the other day and there was an email from this lovely younger woman, I was of course curious. By now you should all know that I am a curious person, sometimes to the cats’ fate.

The flirts have continued for a couple of days and it is possible that if she is amenable, we may be able to hook up. For me this is a secret fantasy (well secret no longer), to see if I can recapture the feeling of my youthful college days and if it may live up to what I remember. So, in my mind I equate this with a much younger woman, hence the possible fulfillment of one of my now not so secret fantasies.

Do I think that there could possible be a relationship here? No, she is much too young for me to consider that, but if she is open to and erotic encounter, it may be good for both of us. She is yearning for something from me that I think I can provide as well, so it may be that we can each take something away from the liaison to remember.

The nice thing about this encounter is that there is not the conflict I was having before. I know that it is only a tumble and not anything more. This has left me open to just be me and not worry about how people are feeling, although I have talked to the right people about the encounter and everything is cool. It is freeing when everyone understands and is open about the situation.

So, here I am, looking for young and fresh, and maybe, just maybe a fantasy fulfillment.

wyvernrose 39F  
3961 posts
7/19/2005 7:01 pm

it is so much more relaxing knowing there is not the greater expectation of continuation, but merely the encounter itself, it free's you up so much,

yet many put down one night stands saying that you barely even are introduced usually in a drunken stupor, without realising that the freedom of not having continued liason, of there just being the encounter negates the need for the prolonged dance of introduction, and in itself lends to greater ease of relation between the two, to make the most of it be mindful to listen to her, her breathing her movement everything and it will be so much better for you both


rm_bella_ 48F
4030 posts
7/19/2005 7:05 pm

Maybe you will discover something about yourself with this girl..sometimes experiences are not just for the obvious.

sincitybrunette 56F
1668 posts
7/20/2005 7:17 am

I have to agree with bella on this one. But isn't it nice to have the freedom to discover those experiences.

rm_txrose4uNTX 58F
3289 posts
7/20/2005 9:36 am

All I can say is that it has been an interesting experience for me to experience the younger men. They certainly don't make me feel old, and I have done things that I thought perhaps I would have never done with an man around my age or a little older. Perhaps, it is that spirit that is still in them... who knows. Enjoy your little "tumble" as you put it; and may it add even more to your own personal growth!!

silvertongue65 53M
31 posts
7/21/2005 7:34 pm

Since I've been on both ends... the older person and the younger, I hope it's an enjoyable experience for both of you. I conncur with bella... it may be more than you expect it to be. I mean, I know you well enough and all, but don't be surprised to find yourself in a different head than you expect when all is said and done. Personally, I have enjoyed the younger woman coming on to me, but like you, would be hard pressed to make a relationship from a drastically younger woman. I also appreciate the older woman's desire and enjoyment and most importantly... age may be just a number, but ESPECIALLY in Las Vegas... be careful or your number might be up. (perish the thought)

massagemitten 35F
2 posts
7/25/2005 1:43 pm

Keep me in mind if your other falls through. I would love to have that may/september experience again....

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