Came in Second  

rm_harshawj 52M
761 posts
9/7/2006 8:56 am

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Came in Second

Ok, so this may be a petty thing to think about, but I do. Have you ever being “The last Guy” or “The Last Gal”? What I mean by this is have you dated someone and the next person they date is “it”, their match? How did you feel knowing you were the “last guy’?

In all fairness I am very happy for her, that she found the person she wants to be with, but what was it that didn’t work with us? Was it me? Was it her? Was it karma? What ever it was I can’t put a finger on it and it is weird knowing I am second best. Not that I have not been second best before, but never in this manner.

If we were not talking as happens so often when two people break it off I guess I would not be wondering about it. But we have remained friends and we check up on each other from time to time. So I guess it is only normal to wonder about it. I am not sure I can put a finger on the feeling but to say that there is a feeling there.

Maybe I am jealous, after all I did not want to end the relationship. Maybe I am a bit envious too, he’s getting what I wanted. Whatever, it is subtle and there and hard to grasp.

Maybe I just need to get over it, but that is going to take time.

tracy_de_lacy 106F
9268 posts
9/7/2006 9:42 am

maybe you should have proposed to her, if you didn't, then maybe he did. Better luck with the next one

Bye everyone, it was a blast

sexymermaid6956 64F
26393 posts
9/8/2006 5:38 pm

hmmm second best...maybe you were not meant to be...never know whats around the corner...thats when you will know...u will figure it out...take time to regroup...


Seduce my mind and my body

sincitybrunette 56F
1668 posts
10/4/2006 6:52 pm

Something tells me that you would never be second best. I know that she doesnt feel that way. You are a very special man and like you said, the timing wasn't right, that doesn't make you second.... Its nice to know that you can still remain friends and check up on each other. That alone tells me that you are something special.

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