one reason we go elsewhere  

hardnhorny20069 51M
7 posts
3/27/2006 6:56 am

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one reason we go elsewhere

Here is the main reason I am on here looking for a playmate. About 18 months ago, my significant other decided she isn't in the mood for sex anymore. We haven't had sex since. The most intimate we get is a quick kiss out the door before work. She won't even talk about it anymore, when I try to get her to open up and talk, thinking maybe there is something I can do to help, she changes the subject. I have read everything I can on this subject, and most everything says she is stressed and overworked, help her out at home. Well, since we have been together, I work a full time job, do all the laundry, help with the dishes, sweep and mop the linoleum, vacuum, and cook 3 days a week or more, depending on the week, and go to school at night. She works a 35 hour week, goes to school 2 nights a week, cooks a couple nights a week, and some dishes. I bring her flowers every once in awhile to show my affection, send her e-mails telling her how much she means to me and how desirable she is, leave notes on her pillow, etc. All to no avail. I am tired of working my ass off trying to please her, and in turn being treated like a piece of trash. I need the closeness of a woman and of course, sex! I love to please my mate or partner, and will do anything in playtime she wants, in order to satisfy her lusts. What am I doing wrong?, and is there any woman out there who would be interested in some playtime with an eager lover who is willing to please?

bluegirl39 51F

3/27/2006 7:28 am

I would have to say time for some real help...get an appointment for the both of you to talk about the issue..tell her that the lack of affection is a big issue with you...I would do that at least..It worth the try..Its great you help out so much...but her view may be way of luck

hardnhorny20069 replies on 3/27/2006 8:36 am:
Hey, thanks, but I have already tried this route, she will not go, so I went by myself. I have told her I need more than I am getting, but it only works for a week, but sex is out of the question. I just don't want our son to have to go through a divorce right now, maybe later, but not now. Thanks again for the advice.

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
3/27/2006 7:37 am

I think you are too young to have this in your life. But there seems to be an epidemic of it. I too, would advise that you get some professional counseling. It sure couldn't hurt!

repeatoffender2 47M

3/27/2006 7:37 am

I think you are right for seeking outside fun. Sometimes even when a partner is very active sexually with you, you still need a change of pace here and there...You seem like a cool guy, she would be crazy to not respond back to you in the ways that you have....

__Huntress__ 56M/59F

3/27/2006 7:41 am

Absolutely ! Life is way too short !


lovemetouchme5 52F
2102 posts
3/27/2006 8:21 pm

Hey, you need to do what's going to make you happy! You've done everything you can at home! I for one would be happy to help you end that 18 month dry spell. Let's get together very soon!!! L

hardnhorny20069 replies on 3/28/2006 6:17 am:
hello L, sure it sounds good. get with me and we will work out the details. C.

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