Does size matter or the tongue can satisfy, holla.  

handle141970 47F
107 posts
10/25/2005 10:47 pm

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Does size matter or the tongue can satisfy, holla.

Hi, I think size matter, or the tongue will have to be the main tool in an sexual encounter with me.
How do other feel, is size only in my mind?

scarlett9002000 58F

10/26/2005 1:27 am

i need big too honey

rm_smart7003 60M

10/28/2005 7:55 am

Interesting question.....could it be like the meaning of life?

As I am a totally straight male all I can say on the matter is that whatever it takes to excite and satisfy is probably a combination of a lot of things.

I too need total discrection and understand why you do not put a facial pucture on here. In fact I don't put one at allbut will be willng to send one privately to the right person who requests it (hint, hint...).

Anyway in answer to your question, my view is that it shouldn't really matter if whatever it is good at its job....but you may think that is a typical male view. If not, and hopefully you don't see it as that please let me know and we could discuss it, and maybe meeting sometime, a little more.....

Maybe you would be interested in turning my theory into practice, all in the interest of science I must add (I think????)....

rm_belsammael 39M
41 posts
11/12/2005 1:44 am

You can pleasure sufficiently in other ways too, but size definetely does count...I've discovered... yup.

rm_zendiik 52M
4 posts
11/15/2005 7:47 am

Yeah, size can be a factor .. but has to be considered from various points of view: is the lady too wide/shallow ? or is the man too thin/short ... LOL ... Even when size is an issue, no reason why great sex cannot still happen ... if both parties know what to do ...

Having said that, I reckon the obsession with size is more for ladies who are more after physical sex .. those more interested in gentle, sensual love making would be less concerned with size.

The obsession with size unnecessarily psychologically impacts most guys .. this is seen everytime u go take a pee in the gents in public toilets (its common to see guys who are desparate to avoid their cocks being seen) .. I think this is unfair and imbalanced ... its about time that the pressure is spread around to the ladies too. For instance, men can start demanding more tighter pussies, etc .. LOL

Whether size is an issue or not, oral sex can certainly immensely complement but not replace the real thing ... for me, to be great, the real thing must involve cuddling up, kissing, loads of affectionate touching/caressing (and oral), and penetration.

handle141970 47F
15 posts
11/15/2005 11:39 am

Hi Zendiik, impress with your answer and if it wasn't me who posted the blog I would whole heartly agree with almost everthing you said. However on this site it not loving that most people are looking for, that what you describe is what I would want from a love one. Kissing and a cuddle is not for me if I am considering NSA.

rm_spainhorn 43M

11/19/2005 10:59 am

Hi Handle and Scarlet, I can't speak for all girls, but think that you are right. Girls I bed are happy almost always when they notice I am bigger than average, and make very saucy comments before and after. Obviously you need to know how to use it (otherwise it doesn't make a difference!). Would you like to check with me if I am right? Let me know!!!

handle141970 47F
15 posts
11/19/2005 2:24 pm

Spainhorn, it would of been so nice if you you had posted a picture of your attributes detailing size, as your large may be my small.

rm_spainhorn 43M

11/20/2005 3:40 am

Could be, of course, but I still haven't found a lady who would tell me that... don't really like to discuss that kind of details in a public forum, but if you let me know how to contact you, I can sort it out for you!!

rm_spainhorn 43M

11/25/2005 3:14 pm

Well, it doesn't look like you're too serious about meeting people? What a shame...

Darkpassion 58F

12/8/2005 6:19 am

Zendilk i'm with you on this one, but the crucial point is that the parties know alternatives. That's the problem. A lot of guys aren't really interested in the kissing and cuddling for the reasons that I think Handle141970's too intimate for most on here.
So as long as this remains the dilema of size will always be an issue. I personally am very forgiving of size if the guy has other compensating talents.

VauntDupleFalls 37M
7 posts
1/13/2006 12:44 am

sometimes a men is blessed and got has oral skills

clitorcolon 52M

2/2/2006 7:39 am

well I like to indulge in serious anal as well as the punany.. I've NEVER heard of a woman complain about size once anal is mentioned.. funny that... !!!!

handle141970 47F
15 posts
2/2/2006 1:26 pm


rm_OJINGO200 44M
4 posts
2/2/2006 8:08 pm

Hiya Handle,Ive been trying to get hold on ya,kindly gimme a cal pls,tried yr numbers but cant get tru.Tots

rm_jrtc93 52M
1 post
2/17/2006 12:35 pm

I too need total discrection and understand your discrection the crucial point is can you as a man satisfy the woman or weman you are with,tongue or your penis I say use both to the best of your ability,
as man it's my duty to please the the bootie.

prezidentb 50M
4 posts
2/23/2006 4:32 pm

Size! That long lasting question.
A few points I have learnt from men and women over the years.

Men with the length don’t always have the strength. i.e. can’t get really hard due to the lack of blood flow or can’t keep it up for long or pound away. A man with length and strength is almost king to a woman.

Guys with length, are not so good with oral and fingers. This is because they thing they have it all within their cock.

The best type of guy to most women is one with skills, variety. He has a average 6' cock and knows how to oral a clit and how to use his fingers (curl them at the right time to hit that G spot).

More than 8' you are loved by some and seen as a assassin by others. Not all women can take 8'+.

less than 6' and you have to work very hard. Get you angles right.

Men with the length don’t always have the strength. i.e. cant get really hard due to the lack of blood flow or cant keep it up for long or pound away. A man with length and strength is almost king to a woman.

Guys with length, are not so good with oral and fingers. This is because they thing they have it all within their cock.

paulanthony2512 47M

5/4/2006 2:47 pm

hi there well does size matter well it depends on the people so im sitting on the fence with that question but would likre you to rtry my size lol

goingdowndown 55M
14 posts
2/18/2007 8:20 pm

i suppose size does matter but combined with the tongue you'll have it all

HolerLyonsAlamo 57M
207 posts
3/10/2009 2:58 am

I enjoy satisfying a woman. That means that if it is important to her, then it is important to me. You have what you have however and need to work with what you have. I am average, so if size matters to a woman, I am probably not the man for her, but there are plenty of other women out there for those of us who do not set any world's records (long, short, fat, or thin).

HolerLyonsAlamo 57M
207 posts
4/2/2009 3:12 pm

This is going to sound like a politician's answer, but it's true. Size matters if it matters to you.

Just like any other preference (I NEVER have sex with white women, it's a personal preference for me, but I understand that there are very greatly varying opinions) size matters if large or extra-large are your preference (and oddly enough, every once in a while you hear a woman who wants it small because of pain).

That said... genetics are the agent here. You cannot fault a guy for being born with the package that he was born with. And since most of us don't want to go through very dangerous surgery, we will go to our grave with the package that we had since adolescence.

I am average in size. I'm not embarrassed to say that (blame my parents), it's a biological fact. I do my best to please every woman I've ever been with (and every single one has come back for seconds, thirds, etc...) So I make sure that I pre-heat every oven I'm going to cook my meat in. The tongue is an amazing equalizer.

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