The best sex  

hamptonsbiman 47M
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1/19/2006 10:52 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The best sex

I'm very discriminating about who I sleep with.

I'm not writing about physical attraction either. That's not to say that I don't find physical attraction important, it certainly plays some role. I just put a much higher premium on other criteria.

First and foremost, I was reminded of my worst ever on-line hook-up after reading another profile recently. This woman had sounded like everthing I wanted, and we had some phenominal (and very hot,) conversations before meeting. But when I met her, she was a total slob.

I don't mean that she was physically unattrative; this woman didn't appear to have showered for several days. Her hair was a disaster, her skin was greasy and downright dirty and she smelled awful. Needless to say, all of our hitting it off went right out the window.

It should be of no surprise any more that cleanliness is reigns supreme over all other criteria. Look, we're all looking to be intimate with others, no? Use some soap before going out to meet a prospective partner and take time to neaten up a bit.

The other major criteria is, of course, attitude. One of the best lovers I have ever had was a woman I "dated" in my twenties. (I put dated in quotes because we rarely went anywhere.) Anyway, I was about 25 and she was in her sixties.

She was by no means a beauty queen, but she certainly cared about the way she looked. If she knew that I was coming over, she'd make sure to doll-up a bit. More importantly, she also wasn't hung up about our age difference. Neither of us were looking for anything long-term and we simply had a lot of physical fun together. She was a great teacher and she taught me a great deal about making love to a woman.

We all have our physical attraction hang-ups. I have friends who are really turned-on by VERY thin people - I prefer a little more substance. In the end though, it really is all about attitude, whether you're 20 or 80 . . .

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