someone help........  

gunluvr 44M
5 posts
5/2/2006 1:28 pm

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11/13/2007 8:01 am

someone help........

please, let me know why i dont get responses in here. I hate to pay for this and just see the days go by getting no winks, responses etc.. maybe its me, but i dont think im all that bad, someone please help.

rm_DaphneR 59F
8023 posts
5/2/2006 2:36 pm

Okay, but asked.

I went and looked at your profile. Not terrible, not great. One HUGE red light for me is the whole "prefer not to say" answers. You get kudos for being up-front about being married and looking, at least that wasn't a prefer not to say answer. But you don't tell your height and a couple other things. No picture. Your other, more detailed answers are started, but only two sections are filled out.

Sweetheart, this is like a super grocery store for women. We get to pick and choose from thousands of brands. Something has to stand out, something has to be special for a woman to take notice. Right now you are kind of a generic brand sitting on the shelf. Advertising babe, advertising sells. Pick something you are proud of about yourself and expound on that. Talk your good point(s) up, but don't sound like an egotistical ass. I understand maybe you didn't answer some of the questions due to privacy issues but I really think to grab someone's interest that you do need to give a little more.

Heck, if nothing else, visit more blogs, meet people in this arena and someone here might point you in the direction of someone who might have the same interests as you in your area.

Hope this helps.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

rm_d3_pilot 52M

5/2/2006 6:53 pm

Agreed... advertising sells.. Im having GREAT responses

angelofmercy5 60F
17881 posts
5/2/2006 8:43 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

jay_peek2000 55M
2 posts
5/5/2006 7:12 am

I generally agree with the others, but I do have to say that I find many many women on here that are all talk, no action. I have chatted, gotten to know someone, exchanged pics and they back out of a meeting. Its very frustrating and it happens to a lot of ppl on here, mostly men and couples. Many have provocative names like Iwannabeyourlilwhore and when you chat with them they say they arent really looking for sex. I think a lot of women are phone or cam for pay women also.
Good luck

gunluvr 44M
1 post
5/12/2006 11:55 am

well I appreciate all the comments thus far. I must say though, I updated my profile except the pic and still no better response. Im going to keep trying but hey, the membership is almost up. thanks everyone, it has helped some.

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