grizzguy4u 58M
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10/28/2005 11:25 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


ya know...if jealousy was a two-headed monster, it just might look like me...all the reasons i've given others i've been involved with to be jealous of, pissed off, etc. and i do the same thing to the woman who has meant more to me than anyone else in my life ... she goes to a swingers club (we've talked about it) and gets a little oral satisfaction with a guy...and i can't handle the monster inside...why am i so closed- minded about her/that and never cared when i was doing the same (luv the one yur with)?

grizzguy4u 58M

10/31/2005 12:21 pm

i think insecurity and jealousy are close cousins...especially when the relationship is new...i could never do that to someone i cared for and it would have to be agreed fantasy arrangement would involve two women as well, but my partner needs to be comfortable first...and most likely by her friend's fantasy is two guys, and we talked about it, but she's been going off to the club by herself and ...

rm_luke69iner 49M
3275 posts
11/27/2005 12:13 am

Good post Grizz

"insecurity and jealousy are close cousins" ... I think you are right there ... I don't think it makes it any easier to deal with though ... I've never done more than one on one ... it would take a very strong relationship and a lot of comunication ... I don't know if I could do it

Best of luck

I hope everything is working out for you okay

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