Dedicated to SensuallyKatey  

goddessofbitches 42M/34F
5317 posts
1/21/2006 7:57 am

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Dedicated to SensuallyKatey

Many of you know SensuallyKatey and I am sure that many of you know that she is going through some tough times right now.

I first want to say,

Katey.. We love you. We don't want you to leave, but if that's what you choose, we understand. I personally, as well as many other bloggers here, will sincerely miss you.

Now, with that said...I want to ask that you guys visit her post [post 210003] because in it, there is a letter "from AdultFriendFinder" that was sent to Katey and implies that she has been complained against..and that she could loose her AdultFriendFinder account. After reading it, I personally came to the conclusion it was fake. The grammar used, the way the sentence structure is set up...doesn't look something a professional business would send to someone.

Now...that said....I wondered how she could be sent something so off the of this posting, I have been here since APRIL of last year, have been reading Katey's postings since I could remember, have been commented by her....followed her to other blogs and read her comments to others, and NEVER ONCE have I ever read anything that was abusive, or against the "TERMS OF USE"

I think that either

A. This is a fake letter written from someone she may have turned down to upset her.

B. This letter did come from someone who "helps" AdultFriendFinder or works for, and they don't like her so THEY sent her such a letter...

C. They have the wrong person.

Some of you can't believe I suggested B. Well I did. I know it's probably jumping the gun...but how easy would it be for people who "Work or Help" AdultFriendFinder to come in, get a grudge against someone, and send them a email, or just simply close out their blog or profile.

I just say it like it is. I know people have their "groups" of people they feel should be here and shouldn't...I just wonder how many in that group are with AdultFriendFinder....

There is one person I know is with AdultFriendFinder and she isn't like that THANK GOD...and I hope she knows that this in no way applies to her.

So I lastly want to say to Katey

I think that letter is fake. I think a lot of hearts will break should you leave....please stay


Always The Bitch

rm_saintlianna 46F
15466 posts
1/21/2006 9:30 am

I saw it and I agree with you, if it is from AdultFriendFinder its very unprofessional.

expatbrit49 64M

1/21/2006 9:35 am

You are so sweet Mandy, Kate has a good friend in you

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

rm_FreeLove999 47F
16127 posts
1/21/2006 9:53 am

obviously in reading blogs it is always personal preference, and i have never gone in for katey's blog --- however, she has been around since i got here and i campaigned for her when her blog was shut down before, and i definitely don't want her to go.

i actually don't understand groups of people thinking others shouldn't be here -- i don't get that at all -- if people write things i don't like (e.g. in my case, mostly, political opinions that really get up my nose), i just don't visit their blog anymore and i certainly don't leave rude comments, nor do i even mind them being there.

anyway, i do hope katey will decide to stay. she is an important part of blogland and i hate it when people leave -- even if i don't read their blogs that often, it is good to see the same faces and wave in passing.

we definitely seem to be going thru a phase with lots of bloggers (incl. me) getting abused right now. i think we just need to rely on the solidarity we have built here and stick together thru thick and thin.... i did post some questions and suggestions on the bloggers group tho... wonder if there is not more that can be done to deal with the abuse...

[blog freelove999]

pleasureyourclit 67M
836 posts
1/21/2006 10:14 am

I have to agree with epxa, you're truely a dear friend!

rm_DaphneR 59F
8023 posts
1/21/2006 10:17 am

Whoever wrote that letter doesn't know the meaning of "gloating" that's for sure.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

ArcticRomance 40M

1/21/2006 2:20 pm

Actually gloating can be used in that context.Typical American trait picking on words when content is more important.Friendfinder does use contractors, who do have access to accounts.It is therefore possible that they could do as you describe.However it would put their work in question so would be a pointless exercise.
In reading Katies Blogs she has had problems in the past.Has she had previous warnings?
Lets hope it is a fake I for one believe that anyone should be able to say or do what they like here.As people keep reiterating we do have the power to delete, ban, and ignore.Thats all anyone needs to stop harrassment.

rm_Bct2Esi 52M/51F
1375 posts
1/21/2006 2:34 pm

ok what the f**** is going on here? I read her blog yesterday and once again everything is gone?

I say we all get on the phone or email and get her back like we did princesskarma

Katey does NOT need this right now!

I adore katey and her writing, IF ANY AdultFriendFinder contractor is reading this, please bring her back!

thank you for you goddess for letting me know what happened

hugs, luvs and smiles

interested13563 54M
2557 posts
1/21/2006 3:04 pm

We stand by Katey's side. Firmly .

NickRules999 40M
9464 posts
1/21/2006 4:49 pm

I'd ask what's going on, but which of us really knows?

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

expatbrit49 64M

1/22/2006 9:13 am

You all know that I dont usually get involved in the verious dramas on this site, but I do have to say that for the almost year I have known Kate she has had problems with this site, some of her own making and some not.

I dont think her post yesterday did much for her cause of staying. What happened I dont know but i find it hard to belive that you can get a mail from customer service if it didnt origionate there

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

Luvwetcunt1000 50M
1258 posts
1/22/2006 10:32 pm

I don't know what's going on but I hope those of you who do, please help her in any way you can.

Efilnikufecin69 48M

1/23/2006 5:15 am

Well, as Kate said, it was real. The CS department writes their own side of a story and doesn't have any "professionally drawn up" works that are automatically sent out. Supposedly such an action was taken due to the fact that the senders name was included in the post, and this(when it is a staff member of AdultFriendFinder) is forbidden. I too have known Kate for a great amount of my time here on AdultFriendFinder and no of noone that would intentionally do her harm, although I do know that in the blogs, our old "friend" AnEnigma517 really went off on her.

I wish you the best Kate, no matter what comes out of this. Keep your head up.

TaZmAnIa2002 38F

1/25/2006 1:22 am


I think that AdultFriendFinder has allowed a few of it ppl to do as they please and not thinkin of the consequences such as these ppl blockin and shutting people down for things they have never done.. And for what only cuz they dont like them.. I think these ppl have no right to decide who can be on here and who cannot, who can have a blog and who cannot..



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