Given Up  

glitzflick 63M
4 posts
4/30/2006 3:33 pm

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5/3/2006 3:33 pm

Given Up

Well it seems like I'm about the most unwanted man in the Fox valley. After numerous e-mails, winks and what have you i've recieved nothing in the way of responces. only two women have even checked out my profile...that's sad. I e-mailed them both but...nothing.
So Friday night i went and sighed up for a service in green bay called eventures/ love Links. Turned my automatic renewal here off and give up. I figure i might have beter luck with Eventures as they will be sending me monthly events where i can go and hopefully meet someone. if nothing else it'll get me out of the house on the weekends.
As I laid in my bed last night i got to wondering how many women on here found themselfs alone saturday? Since none of them e-mailed me they must have all found someone to be with. It's hard to understand how it is i can't find anyone here. I'm really a pretty nice guy..least i've been told that by other people. i'm just not very out going or aserative enough maybe. Just it's hard to just start talking to someone you know nothing about...least for me it is. I know I could make a women very happy if they'd just give me a chance but...guess thats not in the cards for me. Thats ok......what the hell. It isn't true that theres someone out there for everyone.I don't understand it though but thats ok too. least this way I never get bitched at or anything like that. So I'm probably better off.
We'll have to see how this thing with Eventures/Love Links works out. it's basically my last hope.If nothing comes of it i'll finally except my position and just keep to myself.
Thanks to anyone that took the time to read this. i'm sure you had other things that you could have been doing so i apprecaite your taking the time to read this.
Good luck to all the lonely men here and all the lonely women..I really hope you find what your looking for here. Just sorry it didn't work out so well for me.
take care everyone..Jeff

Darkpassion 58F

4/30/2006 4:15 pm

Hope Eventures works out for you. As you say it will get you out of the house. I joined a group called Spice when I first moved. I never found a playmate but I did find 5 great friends. 3yrs later we are still friends and socialize a lot together. So not all bad. Good luck.

Koffla 62M
55303 posts
4/30/2006 4:17 pm

I just noticed you became a member a month ago. It takes time and you need to make yourself visible. Commenting in other blogs , joining interest groups and using the magazine advice section helps. At least it has helped me, and I've been here 6 years. Good luck with your other site!


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