Quiet during sex  

Mustangryder84 34M
24 posts
6/14/2006 3:55 pm

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2/29/2008 6:43 am

Quiet during sex

I've read about this in alot of other places, and it jumped out at me because I could relate. I could relate in that I dont make much, if any noise during sex, aside from deep breathing, or an occasional groan. It's not that I dont enjoy being in the paradise-like confounds of a womans bdy, just that I dont see the point, nor feel the urge to get loud with it-being as shy as i am doesn't help either. While I will say it is sexy to hear a womans moans, I dont really care one way or another if she makes any sounds, so long as she cums. I gotta know, is this a potential turn off that one could be quiet during one of the best things to happen to us since life itself...or is it ok. and for those of you who are quiet who read this-what are you're reasons for bin so..same as mine? different?

LilSquirt_4mfm 68M/69F
3394 posts
6/14/2006 4:43 pm

Ok, ill tell u about me.

My mate, best lover in world except he was usually quiet .... we discussed it, as i like male sexual aggressivenes at times ... with a lil practice, he now can naturally be loud ...... often that loudness alone, at times of fast movements or at his climax makes me cum again and again .. just from hearing his arousal ....... does that help as an answer to your question??

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6/14/2006 5:05 pm

I want my partner to be vocal during sex. It's one way I know I'm doing things right and that he's enjoying the things I'm doing. Most of all, the more vocal he is, the more turned on I get. If he isn't vocal, then it just kills it for me and I might as well rely on my trusty BOB.

Mustangryder84 34M
19 posts
6/14/2006 5:06 pm

ok let me start with WTF?!! ok now that i'm ok again. yes that does help some. I just cant ever seem myself to do it without sounding somewhat fake with it. though I generally enjoy the time spent with someone in this manner, I just dont know how to comfortably express it i guess

Mustangryder84 34M
19 posts
6/14/2006 5:33 pm

hmm another good point. I hadn't thought of it from that perspective. keep the replies comin, I'm makin mental notes lol

florallei 100F

6/14/2006 7:16 pm

Hi Darling,

you want honesty or B S...? no one wants to make love to a partner who is quiet as a mouse!...when I managed a place years ago many of the ladies who worked for me were astounded as to the many visits and flowers I recieved from prospective suitors...slowly I would tell them this and that...finally a young woman asked me...if I could open up a SEX COLLEGE and she would recruit her friends to attend classes...her problem she said was "I just lay there like a dead fish...don't know if I should make a sound" and if she did it sounded fake...
I told her in her own bedroom practice the art of Pleasure...buy a vibrator...know body parts...clit...breast etc...massage...know which touch feels good and get lost in the moment...then do breathing exercise...deep groans...release a breath loudly and forcefully...once the body...spirit of the moment (ecstasy)...combined with the natural responses of the sounds from your breathing...then you begin to know and hear yourself you are in the right track...do this while roommate is out LOL
Gimme...we all like to know our partner is actually PRESENT when we are fucking them...it is a real turn off when he's dead and quiet...you know what I mean...part of two or 3 is better than alone..
practice your breathing...breathe in and moan...release and groan...then as you get natural get more vocal...if it does not offend your lover...talk dirty...a lot of women "love it" as long as they feel safe with you...dirty talking is fucking hot!!! shit sorry getting carried away...hope that helps darling.

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