Date with a friend  

gentelmanjim53 64M
487 posts
3/19/2006 3:51 pm

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3/29/2006 2:53 pm

Date with a friend

Last night I had a date of sorts with someone who has become interested and we IMed for almost three hours covering a broad range of subjects. This is a very well educated lady who is just a sweet and beautiful woman. I find myself thinking about her throughout the day as she makes me think about subjects that we have discussed while IM-ing. Many of her insights are thought provoking and she keeps me on my toes in our conversations.
She is the kind of woman who can challenge me and excite me at the same time. She challenges me intellectually at many levels which is an excitment in itself and then she excites me on a physical level, which granted for a man is no big deal, but it is the way she goes about doing it. As one friend put it it takes 20 different things to excite a woman but for a man show up naked with a six pack and you are good to go. Sometimes we are that easy.
She is worth the time to get to know and build a friendship with and if that is all that comes of this that is ok as well. She is someone special and shall remain a very special friend no matter what.
I read part of an article just recently that new realationships raise hormone and endorphin levels during the early stages of the realationship and can continue as long as those early feelings are worked on maintaining. The research suggested that the elevation of these things in the body have healthy benifits to the heart and mind. Just something to think about. Ya'all have a good day

virgo2646 71F

3/19/2006 4:23 pm

It is wonderful that you have found someone who you can talk to because lets face it after the sexual act there has to be more for a relationship to grow - or not - as the case may be. I would like to find someone like that.

Justa_BigLady 54F
1 post
3/19/2006 5:05 pm

You go Jim! That sounds great! I hope you have many more happy "dates" with this wonderful woman.

Becca53913 58F
131 posts
3/29/2006 12:34 pm

Hope you and your new friend have many more great evenings!
Just keep the 6 pack mentality where it belongs till the time is right! LOL

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