ever feel like nothing is going right?  

funopencouple707 46M/46F
57 posts
9/14/2005 9:05 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

ever feel like nothing is going right?

Today is one of those days. My tub is broken, and it's something I can't fix on my own. Luckily there's another shower, but it still sucks. I want a bath. And the lamp in my room broke. That makes two broken lamps in a week. My ficus is dying, and I don't know why. I probably need to repot it. I feel overwhelmed with all the things I should be doing, and instead, I become immobile. I'm frozen. Little things like that add up for me, until I just want to run away. Literally. I feel like packing up and moving away and leaving all the shit I don't want anymore.

sexymermaid6956 64F
26393 posts
9/14/2005 10:01 am

it is always good to have low points ...makes the happy highes even happier...mmm ficus ..now you have my attention..did you move it recently...maybe i can help there....and by the way I love keeping it light...cant see the point of draging all that shit around....sorry .lol...


Seduce my mind and my body

GoodMorningBrew 52M

9/14/2005 10:06 am

Just calm down... take it one problem at a time. What's wrong with the tub? How did you break two lamps? Lets not forget about ficus, probably should repot it first and foremost. If it still dies, we will have at least tried....

Let me know what the tub's symptoms are...

funopencouple707 46M/46F

9/14/2005 1:41 pm

The ficus hasn't been moved. It has probably been neglected.

The tub has a terrible design defect. The on/off has to be pulled/pushed. It broke inside, so I imagine I need some sort of tool to yank the broken part out... I just don't know what sort of tool that would be. <sigh>

Lamp number one was knocked over by a kitten, and it broke when it hit the floor. Lamp number two was broken by my boyfriend, and it likewise broke when it hit the floor.

Things are just... chaotic right now.

funwithyou602 57F

9/14/2005 3:13 pm

I say run away. Pack a day pack, get in the car and "Road Trip!"

No seriously, when we become so buried in the shit that happens and the things that must be done that we freeze in our tracks. Unable to move, unable to accomplish anything, it is a loud and clear message from your brain that you need to regroup. There are a few way to do that.

Go to the hot tubs and rent it for an hour. Take your mate, your playmates and forget about life for that one hour and just have fun.

Go tothe ocean and sit. Clear the mind and realize as you watch the waves roll in that this is what it is really all about.

Some people just don't take care of themselves first and run their poor overstressed minds crazy and it fights back. If you cant get away even for a short time to clear it all out of your head and start fresh. take one thing....only one and work on that. Look at one thing at a time instead of the whole. And that is the tip of the day from your local average humboldt gal.

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