JUST TELL ME TO FUCK OFF  

funintheday2006 57M
8366 posts
7/26/2006 8:01 pm

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JUST TELL ME TO FUCK OFF


I’m here at work ( no surprise there), been here for 3 hours or so and its not yet 3.30am.
Took some time out to read some of my watched blogs (85!) and notice a definite leaning towards serious issues.
Some great posts amongst them asking searching questions, including Amber, the cliticals, mzhuny, a particularly touching one by curious082385, a blog that I particularly love reading, QofSwords for her cute innocence and GOTD, always a favourite first stop.
I am wondering what relevance my blog has here, there are so many important issues that need airing yet, I am not willing to debate the things that I feel strongly about on this site.
I’m not certain that is a good thing.
I work extremely hard in a fast moving environment where rapid decision making is needed in order to survive and I come here now purely to entertain, if I can, and to have a little fun with friends.
The whole purpose of my blog is lightheartedness with the occasional outpouring of how I really feel and a glimpse of the real me. Not sure if that is enough.
I do think it is a wonderful gift to be able to make a few people smile occasionally and I am grateful that I seem to be able to do that sometimes.
I will not change the format of this blog and incorporate my political/religious beliefs and gripes, I don’t think this is the forum for me to do that.
What I do not want to do however is outstay my welcome and become a pain in the arse.
Difficult one, I’m dwelling.

Maybe I'm just sad because my little girl left last night and whilst we have a huge sending off party for her Friday night I'm beginning to miss her already!
I have a real problem with the display of affection and she came in my office last night with a card and bottle of my favourite wine for me. A normal man would have thanked her, given her a hug, the usual.
Me? I smile awkwardly, not comfortable with receiving gifts and thanked her the best I could.
I know she knows that whatever problems she may encounter that one call to me and I will take the strain for her but, I just wanted to tell her. I couldn't.

Makes me inadequate somehow.

JuicyBBW1001 55F

7/26/2006 8:50 pm

Send me ticket and you can have K for a week or so while I get laid.

Juicy


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 9:01 pm:
Tempting

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
7/26/2006 9:08 pm

You are inadequate. Rather wonderful in a lot of ways, but ... You have to be able to tell people you care. Just showing them isn't enough. It's not too late, though, you can tell her by phone, email or letter. Maybe it's easier to write it.

Hugs. Check your email.


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 9:23 pm:
I'm building up the courage to give her a hug tommorrow night, hope I've got enough time!
Now I'm wishing I organised a smaller party so not so many will see my embarrasment, hugging an employee with 200+ people watching will not be easy.

maverick1255 52M
3953 posts
7/26/2006 10:10 pm

BIG SOFTY!!!


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 10:22 pm:
Bollocks

rm_Benkai7 56M
2358 posts
7/26/2006 10:34 pm

Dear "funintheday2006".

Your party might be a chance to hug (maybe with words) everybody ... try to do the usual too ... your employees, your needs as well as this is your blog part of your life ... let others participate too ...

Benkai7 - just a poor Ronin marching by


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 10:52 pm:
I cannot allow people who know me in the real world to view my blog!!
I am a hard headed businessman with absolutely no emotions, someone who works all the hours God sends and can still stand and make an off the cuff speech. That will probably happen tommorrow sometime after the third glass of wine
In short: I'm a miserable git who yaps too much!!
At work I am just one of the team, just fulfill a different function.

rm_kelli4u2dew 42F
5220 posts
7/26/2006 10:44 pm

funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 10:23 pm:
I'm building up the courage to give her a hug tommorrow night, hope I've got enough time!
Now I'm wishing I organised a smaller party so not so many will see my embarrasment, hugging an employee with 200+ people watching will not be easy.


Dunce! Tomorrow night? In front of 200 people? ~sigh~ you really are socially stunted. Who's taking her to lunch tomorrow? Who's picking her up for the party? Who's giving her flowers? (You give her a dozen white roses, and you won't have to hug her, she'll hug you.)

Who are you trying to please? You? Her? The other 200? Try pleasing you and her. Even if you wait until tomorrow night, it won't kill you to have the other employees know you have a few human genes. Some of them may already suspect.

Are you sure that you're any fun? Sounds to me like some kind of dour workaholic.


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 10:49 pm:
I'm picking her up for the party!! Who else? I dont want her driving when she will be intoxicated. FTR I am picking her up in a stretch limo and the party is in the middle of a field with a marquee erected for the masses! The flowers though...... I promise I'll do that, brilliant!! I can be dour sometimes, I confess

TheCliticals 36F/F

7/26/2006 10:58 pm

I see

First you ruin my spotless reputation and then you abandon me.

Sandy


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 11:08 pm:
Nemo will share

TheCliticals 36F/F

7/26/2006 10:59 pm

For a younger woman


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 11:09 pm:
Mmm, not so much when I think about it
Mind you, I do like the older woman too (under 25 of course )

Kancana 47F

7/26/2006 10:59 pm

You can write a letter or send a card to her.

Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
~ Helen Keller



funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 11:10 pm:
I could, maybe I will

TheCliticals 36F/F

7/26/2006 10:59 pm

You bastard !!


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 11:10 pm:
I resemble that remark, cow

4biddenlove4us 50F

7/26/2006 11:01 pm

You human with emotions and feelings like everyone else but you just as bad as me in keeping them under control!! Take your sensei's advice, he knows what he is talking about, I should know, everything he tells me has worked for me!!!!!!! BTW, nothing wrong with being a softy, it means you have a good heart! {=}{=}{=}
Be happy sweety!!


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 11:04 pm:
I will NEVER admit to being a softy!! You are talking about an exponent of the martial arts, a mans man, a toughie, a.. ok maybe a little soft sometimes, human, always

Lovin_U_4_Fun 55F

7/26/2006 11:02 pm

it makes you human. now you can join the crowd.


funintheday2006 replies on 7/26/2006 11:11 pm:
Oh, human, I remember that from my youth, before people started expecting me to make decisions....

TheCliticals 36F/F

7/27/2006 1:28 am

You need to visit The Spoon Theory


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 2:06 am:
You like to see me emotional?? Wow.

rm_WackyEPP 54F
8470 posts
7/27/2006 1:36 am

When push comes to shove I'm sure you will be fine. She knows anyway, how could she not she's a woman.

xx

BTW! You've been a pain in the arse since day one!


Wacky Jacky


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 2:06 am:
Nemo does not do anal

catkit13 67F

7/27/2006 2:57 am

hey, fun, both serious and silly have their place in blogville. since it's your own blog, be as silly as you want, but know that some of your serious posts can be quite meaningful to your readers! having said that, i'll go back to silly right now


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 5:00 am:
Do I do serious posts?? I just have a bit of a fit sometimes and then, I'm stupid again, immediately!! Thanks babe

BaronessK 53F

7/27/2006 3:51 am

"To Fuck Off"...why did you want me to tell that to you again, when I do it all the time as it is?

But don't go. I would miss you {and that has nothing to do with my aim, the derringer, or the hollow point...for once!}


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 3:55 am:
I'd miss you too, you're one of the few people here fucking madder than me

IAmRubytuesday 56F
3193 posts
7/27/2006 4:49 am

Aw Babe, you are not inadequate you are just very British - the way you are is cultural to men in our society. Just because you don't - or - can't show emotions, doesn't mean you don't feel them. My Dad is just like you - never cuddled my sisters or me when we were young. He was, and is, the best Dad, and i have wonderful memories of him on the floor playing with us and letting us climb all over him, bit he was never affectionately tactile. i still feel awkward hugging him. With the grandchildren, however, he is totally different and can hug and kiss them very naturally. I think it is very sad, because that is obviously how he felt about his own children but wasn't able to demonstrate it because of the social doctrine of that genetration. I bet your father was the same.

Yoe seem to be re-evaluating things because your little girl is going, but that is only natural. your prorities will now change, but don't question your writing, nor your subject matter. there are quite a few blogs that i read regularly, but i can say hand on heart that yours is my favourite. You can make me laugh out loud, and you can make me cry. you shoot from the hip but you never preach. I love the matter-of-fact way you write, and have shit-loads of respect for you. if i have to go to work without reading your blog, i can't wait to get home (the twats police the IT system from head office) and log on. Please don't go.

As for the little girl, you have already said it. She knows what you want to tell her. Just hold your arms out and she will come to you. Lots of love and hugs, Roobs. xxx

Q.2 flies in an airing cupboard. Which one's the soldier?
A.The one on the tank.


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 5:25 am:
Aw roobs, that was awesome thanks>
Never met my dad but, there was no tactile stuff going on in our house. Nearest I got was giving my latest stepfather a good hiding on Christmas Eve when I was 14 because he gambled all my sisters present money away. Then I made him stay outside in the snow all night, drunk. Maybe thats a blog sometime!!!
I do try not to preach or force my views on people, I am here purely for the friendship I've found with people like you

economickrisis 56M

7/27/2006 8:36 pm

Stupid bloody Pommy drongo. That sheila is well rid of you. Its time she had some good aussie tucker.


funintheday2006 replies on 7/27/2006 10:06 pm:
Bloody hell, an Aussie that can read HEY EVERYONE LOK AT THIS

Thank you so much for those words of comfort

However, I afree, having been to the land of folls, I confess, it is THE BEST country in the World mainly due to its people
I should have stayed when I had the chance

papyrina 52F
21133 posts
7/28/2006 12:34 am

    Quoting economickrisis:
    Stupid bloody Pommy drongo. That sheila is well rid of you. Its time she had some good aussie tucker.
he left one on mine too, i was just checking to see if there is a patern another idiot in blogtown


I'm a

and
i'm here to stay


funintheday2006 replies on 7/28/2006 1:22 am:
If it wasn't for the nose I could swear I recognise that face???;?
Yes, I think a pattern is emerging..... suspect a certain nutter... am continuing the incestigation.. oops inVestigation...

economickrisis 56M

7/28/2006 9:29 pm

    Quoting papyrina:
    he left one on mine too, i was just checking to see if there is a patern another idiot in blogtown
funintheday2006 replies on 7/28/2006 7:22 pm:
If it wasn't for the nose I could swear I recognise that face???;?
Yes, I think a pattern is emerging..... suspect a certain nutter... am continuing the incestigation.. oops inVestigation...

Stone the bloody crows!!!! All I did was tell that angelic agean her two bloody anti-semitic posts were antisemetic and you both come down on a bloke like a pair of fucken drunken Hezbolla poofters in a Beirut sauna.
Jesus-fucken-kerist-on-fucken-rollerscates!!! Theres no bloody justice I reckon !!

Back on the topic. Send me the bolter's email and I'll make her feel welcome when she gets here. Does she like Rugby? What position does she play?


catseyes23 62F

7/29/2006 4:38 am

I wouldn't fret-She already knows what you think of her. Think about it, she goes to your office with a card and a bottle of wine.
Unconditional love. Doncha just luv it?


funintheday2006 replies on 7/29/2006 8:51 pm:
Dontcha just! She is a darling girl, I'm gonna miss her

EroticaXTC 51F

7/29/2006 11:14 am

    Quoting economickrisis:
    funintheday2006 replies on 7/28/2006 7:22 pm:
    If it wasn't for the nose I could swear I recognise that face???;?
    Yes, I think a pattern is emerging..... suspect a certain nutter... am continuing the incestigation.. oops inVestigation...

    Stone the bloody crows!!!! All I did was tell that angelic agean her two bloody anti-semitic posts were antisemetic and you both come down on a bloke like a pair of fucken drunken Hezbolla poofters in a Beirut sauna.
    Jesus-fucken-kerist-on-fucken-rollerscates!!! Theres no bloody justice I reckon !!

    Back on the topic. Send me the bolter's email and I'll make her feel welcome when she gets here. Does she like Rugby? What position does she play?
OH BLOODY HELL!!! It's a picture of George Clooney with his eyes blacked out!!! Looks like somebody needs to spank the wanker and send him on his way!


funintheday2006 replies on 7/29/2006 8:53 pm:
Oh, dont do that Ero, I have little private names for all mt commenters that I never reveal to anyone. Just between you and me though his is Ignorant Twat. Do you think it suits him?

EroticaXTC 51F

7/30/2006 7:39 am

hmmmm...yes, it suits him quite nicely. Ok, I won't spoil your fun, fun


funintheday2006 replies on 7/30/2006 7:44 am:
YOU THINK ITS ME????? NEVER. I DON'T HAVE MULTIPLE PROFILES AND I AIN'T SICK ENOUGH TO COMMENT ON MY OWN POSTS. REALLY. NO JOKE.

funintheday2006 replies on 7/30/2006 7:45 am:
And no way would I insult Papy, no way

economickrisis 56M

8/1/2006 10:18 pm

    Quoting EroticaXTC:
    hmmmm...yes, it suits him quite nicely. Ok, I won't spoil your fun, fun
Now thats about as fair as Condaleeza Rice's arse that is.


EroticaXTC 51F

8/2/2006 3:34 am

"YOU THINK ITS ME????? NEVER. I DON'T HAVE MULTIPLE PROFILES AND I AIN'T SICK ENOUGH TO COMMENT ON MY OWN POSTS. REALLY. NO JOKE.

funintheday2006 replies on 7/30/2006 10:45 am:
And no way would I insult Papy, no way"

NOOOOOO Silly, I don't think it's you!!!!! You said "Don't do that Ero"...and I said "ok, I won't spoil your fun"..SEEE???
Now I'm going to have to SPANK YOU!!!


funintheday2006 replies on 8/2/2006 3:40 am:
YES PLEASE, PROVIDING GEORGE ISN'T THERE

EroticaXTC 51F

8/2/2006 3:38 am

    Quoting economickrisis:
    Now thats about as fair as Condaleeza Rice's arse that is.
It's as fair as a pic of George Clooney


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